My bf and I just broke up because aparently i was asking ';stupid questions';. We broke up before and ever since then i've been paranoid that we'll break up again so i'd always ask him- is he sure he loves me, is he angry with me, does he love me etc. i know its stupid but somehow the comfort of his response always made me feel better. Last night after a party he was acting indifferently always thorwing around the phrase ';i dont care'; so I asked him if something was wrong and he said nothing. And i asked him if he was angry with me or something. he completely got angry and said,
'; you know what , i'm tired of your stupid questions. if you're so sure i dont love you why dont you just leave me alone. Dont bother me any more.';
I diddnt expect that responce at all. Hes so angry. He doesnt want to talk at all. What should i do??? I realize now its my fault and that I shouldnt have kept nagging him about it but it seems liek its too late. Should I just give him space?Help! I dont know what to do! 10 Points to best answer with Mature Advice!?
Well despite if you're really paranoid or not, you're questions probably came off as clingy, paranoid and desperate to him and that's probably why he got so angry. Those are three qualities that nobody likes in a partner. You shouldn't constantly need validation that your relationship is dandy.
I think you should definitely apologize and tell him that it won't happen again [don't let it!]. You'd know his temper better than I would, so you can judge better if he needs a bit of space right now, or if you should just go to him straight away.
Good luck!Help! I dont know what to do! 10 Points to best answer with Mature Advice!?
Yes you should give him space, at this point there's really nothing you can do anymore except show him that you are not paranoid and that you trust him enough to give him space. Apologize too but just once, to show him that you are sorry but has pride too I mean, if you do get back together you wouldn't want him to take advantage of what he might think as you being helpless without him. Just give him time.
seems like you just want to know if everything is alright with him, and if you can help him if something isisnt. you should try to explain that to him, just say that its out of worry and concern. and if he really doesint like the questions, then you wont ask them. if he'll have a problem, he'll come running.
well all i have to say is when your going out with a guy no matter what the past is you have to give them their space. I mean if u wana know if they truely like you dont ask give them a chance to prove it. Dont ask if he is mad at you give him a chance to show you he is not. You get what im saying.
i understand how he feels, and i also understand how you feeel, but i would also get angry if someone kept asking me every second if they care, so i say give him a chance to think, and apologize
just tell him what u just put down...that u felt secure when hed tell u that he was sure that he loved u and stuff...ur just worried that u might do something wrong that would make him want 2 break up w/ u...and now u realize that being so worried tore ur relationship 2 shreds...
A relationship is all about a leap of faith. You need to trust the other person. It seems like you didn't quite trust him and it upset him. I would give him some space and hopefully things will work out in time.
If yu have broken up before then he must be a jerk move on you dont need that kind of life anyway
You shouldn't feel the need to ask if he loves you. If you were getting what you need from this relationship, you would know how he feels. in speaking to you like that he is showing total disregard for your feelings. You've been open with him and clear about your expectations of a relationship and he isn't interested in doing what he needs to to make it work. He's probably a great guy and you a great girl, but you need something that he is unable/unwilling to give. My advice would be to hold out for someone who makes you feel loved.
Well just know that you shouldn't be mad at him. In a way, you asked for it. You shouldn't ask all those questions. He probably just didn't like being with someone who was so worried and naggy all the time. All you can do is give him time and space to breathe. Do NOT call him a lot. Just let whatever is going to happen, happen. If you want to call him, just let him know that you didn't mean to be naggy and everything. There really isn't much you can do. It's all in his hands now. I hope things work out for you.
Don't take this personally, but why do people that break up get back together. When I break up with someone, it's because there is something about that I didn't like, or because they did something to me to make them less appealing (cheating, pestering, paranoia, etc.) . So what's the point of getting back together with them? Unless they are chemically imbalanced, people don't change, they just pretend to. So, if you broke up before, break up again, and stay broken up this time. Find someone you know loves you, and you dont have to ask, you just know. Your life will be far more satisfying, take it from me, I know from experience.
Ok #1 men or boys dont liked to be asked those kind of questions ! And im sorry to have to say hes not ready for a commitment and no its not you its him. so in your next relationship try being a little more self confident guys dig that, we have all been there so dont let this get you down. It will hurt for awhile but trust and believe you'll get over it, and he'll realize he lost something good and good things dont come along to often.
He seems to be fed up with you and your insecurities. I don't blame you for being insecure. I think your self esteem needs to be raised. Can you work on being independent/self confident? It hurts when someone rejects you and you are just reacting to him not wanting you, then, but it can get tiresome when someone won't stop asking questions. I would let him cool off and then text him with a, ';Hi. How have you been? If he texts back, then you can start slow and build a lasting relationship. Think of ways to build your self esteem and realize you're a beautiful, smart, funny, hot, well dressed great catch. Realize that you can find another boyfriend anytime anywhere, so don't sweet the small stuff. Who knows he may like the new you. Good luck.
honey, if he didnt love you, he wouldn't be with you, and yeah, guys DO need they're space sometimes.If you need to be reassured, this is what i used to do with my bf, i just walked up to him, kissed him and told him i loved him. When he smiled and kissed me back, i knew i was in the clear. If he even showed a sign of caring back, i knew he did.
Just know that if a guy is with you, he obviously cares about you. You sound liek a great girl, just be more self confident, okay? good luck!
First of all, never blame yourself for how you feel, but in his defense men aren't really into women that lack self confidence. Knowing that he loves you cause you are all he needs is a turn on for men. When you keep asking if he loves you, then you might really be asking yourself if you love you. If you feel that you always need that comfort and reassurance that he loves you, then he isn't giving you what you need. In a healthy, truely loving relationship, the everyday things they do tells you they love you. I hate when someone is on the phone with their significant other and at the end they say ';I love you';, then they call back 2 minutes later and as they say goodbye they do the ';I love you thing'; again. Your feelings aren't going to change that soon, when you throw those words out like that, it looses its meaning. In your relationships you should know it is secure and that they love you, and they don't have to actually say it every two minutes.
Im haveing the exact same problem right at this moment. But dont blame yourself. He gave you a reason to ask questions didnt he? My boyfriend says im anoying. And he gets really mad if I ask him whats wrong, so he sounds like your boyfriend. Just explain to him how much you really truely love him, and tell him that your very sorry. Thats what I did and it works for me. But just dont tell him its his fault even if it is, it will make him madder.
I think you were afraid because you guys broke up once before and you needed reassurance. You know that you were bugging him though :o) Just give him some space and let him cool down. Just wait and then if you talk to him, just chill out and tell him that you know you kinda freaked out before. Just relax. Some guys arent into just coming out with their feelings all the time. They have to do it on their own, and it will aggravate him if you push him into it all the time. Just give him some time, like you said to cool off before you talk to him about it. Good luck
By what you are saying, this is not your fault. When I was younger in relationships I did the same thing that you did- Always questioned how my boyfriend felt about me. The truth is, I wanted to hear him tell me that he loved me, and hearing him tell me that made me feel better about myself. It's normal for females to have the need to hear those things. We need reassurance. What I can tell you is that he clearly has something going on in his life. I would give him space. The thing is, if he wants to be with you- space with allow him to see that. If you don't give him space then he won't be able to see what life without you is like. Sometimes it's just better to move on. I'm sure you are a great girl with much to offer. Don't settle for anything less than perfect, and remember- you have so much life ahead of you.
You're not looking for love from your boyfriend, you're really seeking acceptance. Somehow in your mind you've placed this simple human being on a pedistal and without realising it you've began worshipping him. There's something really wrong with that and with your view on relationships as a whole. When it becomes so important to you that he's not angry, or you need to hear him say that he loves you, you have a bigger problem than him.
It appears that you have no confidence and to him you're pretty much not human. You've tossed all of your dignity and respect out the window just to be in his presence and while there you do everything you can to not upset him.
He has no respect for you, this you know because he broke up with you for what he called ';asking stupid questions.';
In a real relationship there is no such thing as a stupid question, period! If a man seriously loves and cares about a woman he'll answer any question she can come up with, even ones that make him uncomfortable.
He treats you like you're bothering him because he knows that regardless of what he says to you, you'll come back to him for more.
Should you give him space? I think that was the one statement you made that gave me hope in you turning this thing around. So please, give him space, a lot of space. Let him go. Take a whole lot of time to get to know you, and find out who you are. Learn to depend on you and you alone, and above all this, learn to love yourself!
I know this message is harsh, but what you said in your post was a glympse into a unnatural relationship. A relationship where everything is centered around one person, him and his feelings. There was not one indication that he's taken your feelings into consideration.
If he were a real man and he knew you were having concerns about your relationship surviving, he'd comfort you. He'd let you know everyday that everything was alright and that not only was he happy with you, but that it was because of you that he felt that way. He'd never let you feel insecure, because a real man would have spotted that already and made sure you knew that not only did he love you, but he planned on loving you for a long time to come.
I hope things work out for you, I really do. There's a real man out there for you somewhere, one that will treat you the way women are supposed to be treated. They're supposed to be loved, comforted, protected and provided for. Why? Because without women, none of us would be here. You deserve better, you really do.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
I am in love with my best friend of the same sex. Advice please!!!!
Hi, recently i've been having feelings fore my best friend. We are both female and the same age (18). I think about her all the time. I don't have sexual feelings, but I have the urge to kiss her and just touch her. We joke about being lesbians all the time but it's clearly a joke between friends. She has told other friends that if she were a lesbian, she would choose me.
I am not gay but i do get 'girl crushes' but i feel that this is so much more!
What should i do? Keep it to myself? Make a move after a drink? I'm so confused!I am in love with my best friend of the same sex. Advice please!!!!
I think you should talk to her. It's best to get your feelings into the open and know where you stand with her. If she is a good friend and cares about you then she will understand what you are going through and be there to help you through it.I am in love with my best friend of the same sex. Advice please!!!!
u r experiencing 2 feelings most likely. first, you are curious and second, probably lonely. don't ruin a good friendship just because of weakness but, think about the fact that she would choose u if she were a lesbian. she might b curious also. it's really difficult to tell somebody else how to test the waters. if she is a true friend and u approach her more than that, either u 2 will have a great relationship or have a closer friendship because u can share these feelings. otherwise, if she gets mad, she isn't a true friend.
I think you're confusing yourself more than you need to be. Either you like the touch of her soft skin and you want more or you don't. If you are curious then definitely test that. However, it's best to test it with someone else besides your best friend. That way it will not be awkward if you're not attracted to women. Plus, if you figure it out for yourself she will reveal if she's interested or not.
Oh by the way, the whole drunk thing is not the best plan but I would so try it=)
I know how you must be feeling and If I was you , I'd say something like...I think I'm developing feelings for you but I won't try anything if your not ok with it. It seems to me that you do actually really like her and it's not just a ';girl crush';. It's really up to you but If I was you , I'd tell her because after all she is your best friend and whatever you tell her she is always going to understand and love you for who you are , know what I mean? Hope it all works out.
As long as you're not having the sexual feelings about her, then I don't think you're turning lesbian. Maybe you're just feeling closer to her and showing more affection through small gesture touches. You should probably talk to her about this.
This is very common amongst best friends...all the love gets thrown in a pile, gets confused with sex, etc....chill, nothing going on here but love of a friend, we are just so used to love leading to sex, it is normal to wonder what the hell is going on! Peace and love, Goldwing
hell make the move after a drink.. haha. no talk to her really.. It's the best way to understand.. what your feeling and explore it hell maybe together.. I was once in love with my best friend and she was the best girlfriend I've ever been with this is common..
Can't say that's happened to me lol. But if you're really feeling this way maybe when you guys are out havin fun drinkin or somethin (so incase she gets weird use that as an excuse) just tell her how you feel, like it's more than friendship..see where she stands kinda thing.
It's clear that you love her if you weren't initially attracted to her. You should definitely tell her or make a move, and yes, a little drink probably would help - but not too much eh ;)
Dont mix any moves w booze . If stuff happens , the girl may later say , forget it I was just drunk . Try not to worry . Best of luck -
Game on!
Hi Bex, I have just been speaking to a freind who is in a kind of simillar situation (only thing is her other mate is actually lesbian) but do you seriously think that she feels the same way?
It is obvious that she is a good friend of yours and are you ready to take the risk of losing that over something you aren't actually sure of? When do you actually feel the urge to kiss or touch her? maybe you just feel infactuated by her and this could not even be a gay matter.
I suggest exploring yourself first sexually, keep this freind AS A FRIEND because you should not risk losing them if it isn't your cup of tea in the end! Try talking to other lesbians, the internet is a good place to talk about things like this. Ask people about the first time they were attracted to somebody of the same sex and compare your situation.
I hope you do find your way, and I hope you make the right desision!
I am not gay but i do get 'girl crushes' but i feel that this is so much more!
What should i do? Keep it to myself? Make a move after a drink? I'm so confused!I am in love with my best friend of the same sex. Advice please!!!!
I think you should talk to her. It's best to get your feelings into the open and know where you stand with her. If she is a good friend and cares about you then she will understand what you are going through and be there to help you through it.I am in love with my best friend of the same sex. Advice please!!!!
u r experiencing 2 feelings most likely. first, you are curious and second, probably lonely. don't ruin a good friendship just because of weakness but, think about the fact that she would choose u if she were a lesbian. she might b curious also. it's really difficult to tell somebody else how to test the waters. if she is a true friend and u approach her more than that, either u 2 will have a great relationship or have a closer friendship because u can share these feelings. otherwise, if she gets mad, she isn't a true friend.
I think you're confusing yourself more than you need to be. Either you like the touch of her soft skin and you want more or you don't. If you are curious then definitely test that. However, it's best to test it with someone else besides your best friend. That way it will not be awkward if you're not attracted to women. Plus, if you figure it out for yourself she will reveal if she's interested or not.
Oh by the way, the whole drunk thing is not the best plan but I would so try it=)
I know how you must be feeling and If I was you , I'd say something like...I think I'm developing feelings for you but I won't try anything if your not ok with it. It seems to me that you do actually really like her and it's not just a ';girl crush';. It's really up to you but If I was you , I'd tell her because after all she is your best friend and whatever you tell her she is always going to understand and love you for who you are , know what I mean? Hope it all works out.
As long as you're not having the sexual feelings about her, then I don't think you're turning lesbian. Maybe you're just feeling closer to her and showing more affection through small gesture touches. You should probably talk to her about this.
This is very common amongst best friends...all the love gets thrown in a pile, gets confused with sex, etc....chill, nothing going on here but love of a friend, we are just so used to love leading to sex, it is normal to wonder what the hell is going on! Peace and love, Goldwing
hell make the move after a drink.. haha. no talk to her really.. It's the best way to understand.. what your feeling and explore it hell maybe together.. I was once in love with my best friend and she was the best girlfriend I've ever been with this is common..
Can't say that's happened to me lol. But if you're really feeling this way maybe when you guys are out havin fun drinkin or somethin (so incase she gets weird use that as an excuse) just tell her how you feel, like it's more than friendship..see where she stands kinda thing.
It's clear that you love her if you weren't initially attracted to her. You should definitely tell her or make a move, and yes, a little drink probably would help - but not too much eh ;)
Dont mix any moves w booze . If stuff happens , the girl may later say , forget it I was just drunk . Try not to worry . Best of luck -
Game on!
Hi Bex, I have just been speaking to a freind who is in a kind of simillar situation (only thing is her other mate is actually lesbian) but do you seriously think that she feels the same way?
It is obvious that she is a good friend of yours and are you ready to take the risk of losing that over something you aren't actually sure of? When do you actually feel the urge to kiss or touch her? maybe you just feel infactuated by her and this could not even be a gay matter.
I suggest exploring yourself first sexually, keep this freind AS A FRIEND because you should not risk losing them if it isn't your cup of tea in the end! Try talking to other lesbians, the internet is a good place to talk about things like this. Ask people about the first time they were attracted to somebody of the same sex and compare your situation.
I hope you do find your way, and I hope you make the right desision!
My father is getting remarried - and I'm serving as best man... only I'm his DAUGHTER. Advice, please!
Are there any other ladies out there who've ';stood up'; for their fathers at a second wedding? I expect to fulfill some typical ';best man'; duties, like make the toast at the reception and to stand up for him at the ceremony and sign the wedding certificate... but have some reservations about what is appropriate and what is not. I certainly won't be planning a bachelor party or wearing a tux... but, I do not want to wear a bridesmaid's dress at the ceremony either. I would not feel comfortable in the style that's been selected, and as I'm representing the groom's family, I feel it would be more appropriate for me to coordinate my outfit with my father for the day. I planned to go shopping with my future stepmother (so she can approve) for a very simple dress in the same color family as the rest of the wedding party - is it considered acceptable for me to have my own ';look'; since I will certainly have my own duties that day?My father is getting remarried - and I'm serving as best man... only I'm his DAUGHTER. Advice, please!
I think thats awesome! You should go shopping with your stepmom so she can have a say also...or at least to make her feel that way. Why not just a black dress? More than likely the other grooms men will be wearing black tuxes, so its only right that you are wearing something that matches. Just a normal black dress.
And why do I feel so gay having input on this question? haha...I just think its cool that he asked you to do this.My father is getting remarried - and I'm serving as best man... only I'm his DAUGHTER. Advice, please!
hi,
it is not uncommon in this day and time for a female to be a best person in a wedding. there have even been times that a guy has stood up for a woman. just learn what you have to do and try to do that.
Your dad basically want you to be part of the wedding. Don't disappoint him. Get yourself a pant-suit. You'll look very smart and cool!
that is absolutely lovely, yes pick your own look that is coordinated in color......and you should feel so special your dad, picked you!
A dress that matches your father's tux or the groomsmen's tuxes would look best in pictures. Make sure the dress can accommodate the same flower type as your father's. Other than that, look your best! And have as much fun as you can. Remember the groomsmen are there to help, so use them as much as you can (the trustworthy ones) to help out with the stuff like paying the minister, tipping the DJ, all that jazz.
I say if they are paying for the dress and it is their day then just go along with what they want. When and if you ever get married then you can decide all those things and boss people around too : - ).
You can just tell your Dad what you do and do not feel comfortable doing. If they don't not plan on having a traditional wedding then all the duties you mentioned don't have to be done traditionally by a best man either. You Dad must have a guy friend he's known for a while so maybe he can plan the bachelor party, etc. Also many people who are older and have a 2nd or 3rd marriage don't even bother with one anyway.
Sounds like a good plan to me. You'll be standing on his side for the ceremony (I'm assuming) so it only makes sense to match him. Hope it goes well!
Seeing as how you are filling a traditional role in a non-traditional way, I say do what you want as long as your family approves. I think its a great idea to go shopping with your future stepmother and coordinate your dress with the groom's side. Have fun with it! As far as I am concerned, there is no etiquette for a female best man, so make up your own.
I think thats awesome! You should go shopping with your stepmom so she can have a say also...or at least to make her feel that way. Why not just a black dress? More than likely the other grooms men will be wearing black tuxes, so its only right that you are wearing something that matches. Just a normal black dress.
And why do I feel so gay having input on this question? haha...I just think its cool that he asked you to do this.My father is getting remarried - and I'm serving as best man... only I'm his DAUGHTER. Advice, please!
hi,
it is not uncommon in this day and time for a female to be a best person in a wedding. there have even been times that a guy has stood up for a woman. just learn what you have to do and try to do that.
Your dad basically want you to be part of the wedding. Don't disappoint him. Get yourself a pant-suit. You'll look very smart and cool!
that is absolutely lovely, yes pick your own look that is coordinated in color......and you should feel so special your dad, picked you!
A dress that matches your father's tux or the groomsmen's tuxes would look best in pictures. Make sure the dress can accommodate the same flower type as your father's. Other than that, look your best! And have as much fun as you can. Remember the groomsmen are there to help, so use them as much as you can (the trustworthy ones) to help out with the stuff like paying the minister, tipping the DJ, all that jazz.
I say if they are paying for the dress and it is their day then just go along with what they want. When and if you ever get married then you can decide all those things and boss people around too : - ).
You can just tell your Dad what you do and do not feel comfortable doing. If they don't not plan on having a traditional wedding then all the duties you mentioned don't have to be done traditionally by a best man either. You Dad must have a guy friend he's known for a while so maybe he can plan the bachelor party, etc. Also many people who are older and have a 2nd or 3rd marriage don't even bother with one anyway.
Sounds like a good plan to me. You'll be standing on his side for the ceremony (I'm assuming) so it only makes sense to match him. Hope it goes well!
Seeing as how you are filling a traditional role in a non-traditional way, I say do what you want as long as your family approves. I think its a great idea to go shopping with your future stepmother and coordinate your dress with the groom's side. Have fun with it! As far as I am concerned, there is no etiquette for a female best man, so make up your own.
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My Girlfriend and i broke up yesterday, I've been in tears all day. I don't care whats happened in the past anymore I'm ready to move on!
I want her back so badly I'm so in love with her, She broke up with me because she said she couldn't stand seeing me broken hearted.
Should i run to her tonight? Or wait for her to come over tomorrow to pick up her stuff. There's so much i want to say to her that I'm afraid that i wont be able to find the words.
Help me please.
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didnt u just answer ur question! u love her
go after her in a romantic way..find her and tell how much she means to you and tell her that she means the world to you! and dont let her go..
if u love her..get off the computer and go after her!! =]
best of luck!
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If you don't say it it could be to late. If she hurt you so bad that she left because of it, you have to ask yourself if she is really worth your tears and worth wanting back. People can change but they have to want to change. Talk to her honey tell her everything on your mind your fears, your hopes, and your expectations. Plus lay down some rules, if she wants you back bad enough she will agree to anything. Good Luck.
P.S. Don't come across as a Wuss, but don't come across as an ***.
Well i would say, just be your self first of all and second if she does come and pick her stuff up just tell her straight out that u would like to talk to her and to explain to her whats going on and how u feel and just take it from there thats that the best way to go forward with this.. If she doesnt wanna talk then its not meant to be.. Just leave it alone.. Good Luck..
I dont get it? Why did she break up with you because she couldnt stand to see you broken hearted? WHy were you broken hearted when you were still together?
Sounds more like she doesnt feel the same way you do. Do not run to her tonite. Its best to put some time and space on these things to take a look back.
If she wants to talk when she comes over fine. Get yourself together and be relaxed and rational .
if your ready to move on.. you shouldnt want her back. moving on is getting over the past and looking for a new start in the future..
have her get her stuff. and then let her go. ex's become ex's for a reason. her reason was a a stupid one.. unless theirs more behind it..
move on means moving on. not hanging onto the past.
I can't tell you what to do, so follow your heart and think about which action would end better. Pz.
I LOVE YOU
I want her back so badly I'm so in love with her, She broke up with me because she said she couldn't stand seeing me broken hearted.
Should i run to her tonight? Or wait for her to come over tomorrow to pick up her stuff. There's so much i want to say to her that I'm afraid that i wont be able to find the words.
Help me please.
Need advice ASAP *10 points to best answer*
didnt u just answer ur question! u love her
go after her in a romantic way..find her and tell how much she means to you and tell her that she means the world to you! and dont let her go..
if u love her..get off the computer and go after her!! =]
best of luck!
Need advice ASAP *10 points to best answer*
If you don't say it it could be to late. If she hurt you so bad that she left because of it, you have to ask yourself if she is really worth your tears and worth wanting back. People can change but they have to want to change. Talk to her honey tell her everything on your mind your fears, your hopes, and your expectations. Plus lay down some rules, if she wants you back bad enough she will agree to anything. Good Luck.
P.S. Don't come across as a Wuss, but don't come across as an ***.
Well i would say, just be your self first of all and second if she does come and pick her stuff up just tell her straight out that u would like to talk to her and to explain to her whats going on and how u feel and just take it from there thats that the best way to go forward with this.. If she doesnt wanna talk then its not meant to be.. Just leave it alone.. Good Luck..
I dont get it? Why did she break up with you because she couldnt stand to see you broken hearted? WHy were you broken hearted when you were still together?
Sounds more like she doesnt feel the same way you do. Do not run to her tonite. Its best to put some time and space on these things to take a look back.
If she wants to talk when she comes over fine. Get yourself together and be relaxed and rational .
if your ready to move on.. you shouldnt want her back. moving on is getting over the past and looking for a new start in the future..
have her get her stuff. and then let her go. ex's become ex's for a reason. her reason was a a stupid one.. unless theirs more behind it..
move on means moving on. not hanging onto the past.
I can't tell you what to do, so follow your heart and think about which action would end better. Pz.
I LOVE YOU
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theres this guy i like... and ths is high school where u cant tell the diffrence if a guy likes u or not.. HELP? how do u TRUELY know that a guy likes you?!And advice? 10 points for best answer! please help!?
You may try this tactic, walk past him all the time to see if he notices you, if he does, this might get his friends start talking. You can also chat with hm online without revealing your identity, maybe just pretend you are a guy, e.g. guys talk, %26amp; try to draw the topic %26amp; his attention to you, then you can find out his feelings.
Hoe this helps though (%26gt;u%26lt;)And advice? 10 points for best answer! please help!?
He stares into your eyes, constantly texts you, messages you on myspace or w.e., umm talks to you constantly..., catches up to you in the hallway just to say hey, ditches his friends to talk to you, trys to get a seat near you in class, it's pretty easy to spot these things out.
if u really like him he will tell u! like after one or two weeks top! unless he's too shy...i guess u can tell by the way he looks at u!
I don't think you'll know unless you ASK or be friends with one of his friend and TRY to get it out from them..apply eyeshadow facial lotion
You may try this tactic, walk past him all the time to see if he notices you, if he does, this might get his friends start talking. You can also chat with hm online without revealing your identity, maybe just pretend you are a guy, e.g. guys talk, %26amp; try to draw the topic %26amp; his attention to you, then you can find out his feelings.
Hoe this helps though (%26gt;u%26lt;)And advice? 10 points for best answer! please help!?
He stares into your eyes, constantly texts you, messages you on myspace or w.e., umm talks to you constantly..., catches up to you in the hallway just to say hey, ditches his friends to talk to you, trys to get a seat near you in class, it's pretty easy to spot these things out.
if u really like him he will tell u! like after one or two weeks top! unless he's too shy...i guess u can tell by the way he looks at u!
I don't think you'll know unless you ASK or be friends with one of his friend and TRY to get it out from them..
I wanna travel this summer in Europe can u advice me where i can go or what is the best place?
If you really don't know where to go, just take a tour and see a couple places.
www.efcollegebreak.com is good if you don't mind being with a bunch of college kids.I wanna travel this summer in Europe can u advice me where i can go or what is the best place?
PARIS! it's beautiful there.
although i cant give you an exact place, but you should bring a pamphlet with french words in it just in case. the french know english, but they find it rude if you just speak straight english. like it would be better if you spoke english with french words like merci or bonjour.
www.efcollegebreak.com is good if you don't mind being with a bunch of college kids.I wanna travel this summer in Europe can u advice me where i can go or what is the best place?
PARIS! it's beautiful there.
although i cant give you an exact place, but you should bring a pamphlet with french words in it just in case. the french know english, but they find it rude if you just speak straight english. like it would be better if you spoke english with french words like merci or bonjour.
Tax Advice, 10 points for best?
ok if i live in x place (meaning my address is there)
and i work at y place(meaning i stay in my RV monday through friday and go home every other weekend to take care of bills and diposit checks)
and i have expenses (meaning food and living costs)
for while im working at y place
and i keep all the reciepts for the year.
then can i claim those expenses on my taxes?Tax Advice, 10 points for best?
If it is a temporary assignment of less than a year then you can deduct some expenses. Food is only 50% deductible. You have to eat whether you are there or at home. These are only deductible if you itemize.Tax Advice, 10 points for best?
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I used to really struggle making ends meet. Fortunately, I was able to find a couple work at home programs that actually worked. Now I make enough money to pay all my bills, and put extra in the bank each month. I blogged about it on my website. http://jobsfromhome.notlong.com
and i work at y place(meaning i stay in my RV monday through friday and go home every other weekend to take care of bills and diposit checks)
and i have expenses (meaning food and living costs)
for while im working at y place
and i keep all the reciepts for the year.
then can i claim those expenses on my taxes?Tax Advice, 10 points for best?
If it is a temporary assignment of less than a year then you can deduct some expenses. Food is only 50% deductible. You have to eat whether you are there or at home. These are only deductible if you itemize.Tax Advice, 10 points for best?
,
I used to really struggle making ends meet. Fortunately, I was able to find a couple work at home programs that actually worked. Now I make enough money to pay all my bills, and put extra in the bank each month. I blogged about it on my website. http://jobsfromhome.notlong.com
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