Friday, January 8, 2010

Singing advice? 10 points to best answer?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EgrLD9qtZaw%26amp;feature=channel_page








i really am singing.. my friend is just lip synching in the videoSinging advice? 10 points to best answer?
You have a beautiful voice. Show your face so they know who the sound is really coming from. You could hold a great future as a singer if you just build up more confidence!!!Singing advice? 10 points to best answer?
you are pretty good.





A few notes were off pitch.


Practice listening to notes and singing them correctly.Do you have a piano?? if so play say Middle C on the piano, then sing the same note. Do this with heaps of different notes (including black ones!)





You can also practice scales either on a vowel, or using solfege (do re mi)





and you sounded slightly nasally, but in some genres that is ok.





And if you can afford it get voice lessons!


hope that helps...








P.S,


your friend looks weirdly like someone I know... is her name Bella??


and she does not look like she is actually singing
you sing pretty well. next time it would be nice to see you in front of the camera though. it would be a good idea to take voice lessons to help build your sound and make it fuller sounding. you have a very good start.
very good. It wouldn't hurt to take voice lessons though just so you can perfect that voice and learn how to hit notes a little better.
wow you sing really good


why dont you sing in front of the camera instead of your friend?
YOu're awesome!


you could tell she was faking it.

Any advice on preparing well for the MCAT? what's the best MCAT preparation book?

I'm looking for MCAT books to help me prepare...which one would you recommend that helps prepare well for the MCAT? Any advice on it is well appreciated too :)Any advice on preparing well for the MCAT? what's the best MCAT preparation book?
I liked ExamKrackers, but I also used Kaplan and Princeton. IMO, it depends on how well you know the material. EK is like a crash course in the MCAT, while K and P both go more in-depth. I read them all, but I would say I only studied EK b/c I was comfortable with the material (i took the MCAT summer of my junior year). My best advice is to first take an AMCAS practice exam and see how you score. That will let you see what section/courses/topics you should pay more attention to. After you study, take another AMCAS PE and then study again. Repeat this cycle until you feel comforable with all material.





Also, you should devote more time to your weaker areas while not neglecting the areas that you feel comfortable with. Print a list of the topics covered on the MCAT and when you're reviewing your practice exams document how many questions you make and miss in each topic. This will let you know where to devote more of your time.





When you take your PEs mimic the environment of the actual exam w/ the scheduled breaks and all. This will help you relax while taking the real and make sure that the grades of your PEs aren't inflated. Due to stress, PE scores are usually 2 pts higher than what you score on the real exam.

Ultra portable lab tops? which is the best and the smallest?...any advice?

MacBook Air.





Full size, backlit keyboard. 13'; Screen. 80 gig hard drive. Three pounds in weight.





Aluminum case, far sturdier then the competition, and costs less than some of them like the Sony.





Now that being said, it's for the all wireless environment. An external optical drive is available if needed, but you can load apps from any other machine with a disc drive. Couple this with the new Time Capsule (wireless router and huge hard drive) and you're on to something!Ultra portable lab tops? which is the best and the smallest?...any advice?
I would stay away from ultra portable laptops. They have a lot of high tech jammed into a small container. Little bumps and things cause them to break down alot. And the cramped keyboards and small screens, in my opinion, doesn't add much benefit when all you get is a little more portability. They are pricey too.Ultra portable lab tops? which is the best and the smallest?...any advice?
there are a few amazing and freakishly small computers out there. Fujitsu makes some of the most impressive looking ones. For example, their LifeBook series. The OQO is a windows based system, and has some impressive specs. The only issue it has, is its lack of graphic capabilities.





Hope some of this helps
I would go with the apple macbook air, its really really cool and thin





http://www.apple.com/macbookair/





Ultra portable and great for traveling =)





cheers
MacBook air just came out.
i would say macbook air. but it is a piece of crap. it is so small there isn't even a hard disk drive. i have a macbook and it is super small and fast. there the best
Macbook AIR. The world's thinnest and MOST FRIGGEN advanced operating system in the world. Leopard is 10 years ahead of Vista, that copy of the 5 year old Mac OS LOL!

Help! Advice Please! 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER?

How Do You Guys Like To Be Kissed?


AnyWay A Girl Should Behave Before/After?


This Will Happen In School Btw


x


TaHelp! Advice Please! 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER?
French kiss is the best one!


ANY kiss a guy will like!Help! Advice Please! 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER?
My boyfriend likes it when i stare deep into his eyes and bite my lip while slowly moving towards him then after the kiss pull away and then drop my head slightly. And as for the kiss just a long slow romantic kiss, but not too sloppy or too shy, in the middle somewhere just perfect.


Don't worry you'll be fine, just be confident and cute at the same time, if you can try to talk through your eyes it's more romantic.


good luck x
Boys like to be kissed like you do, with passion + care. Don't slobber or have too much of a wet mouth, tease him with your tongue, pull his lips with yours. Hold him tight and try and make it as passionate as possible





Try to not make it look like your over acting though, mean it; from the heart.
Do you mean the scenario or the actual kissing?


For a first kiss, I wouldn't want it to be totally ';tongue-lolling-over-tongue,'; just a little... um, more than a peck but less than making out. Ya know?





Be comfortable with the guy, but not too upbeat. Afterwards, don't act like nothing happened - look him in the eyes. Whatever happens, happens. So, good luck! :)
not in public first time, gently and slowly, act sort of happy and make a good atmosphere and dont rush into it otherwise it will put him off go into it slowly after uv talked 4 a bit hope i helped
Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not one bit simpler.


-Albert Einstein
%26gt;%26gt; i guess that's life





naughty naughty lol biting your lips as slowly approaching him loll very sexy...
in the mouth. stick your tongur deep in. do not stop there. go further down south
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  • CLOTHES ADVICE!! 10 POINTS 4 BEST ANSWER!!!?

    can u show me a dress top that hides a small bit of lower belly fat?


    something u can get in ireland please!


    thnk u in advance!! xxxCLOTHES ADVICE!! 10 POINTS 4 BEST ANSWER!!!?
    I can't show you but I can tell you. Any of the baby doll tops. Something that fits snug up high like the summer sleeveless tops and hangs loose at the bottom. Not to loose it will make you look heavier than you really are. Other things to try is layer a couple of tops...like a tank top with a polo. let the tank hang out from under the polo.CLOTHES ADVICE!! 10 POINTS 4 BEST ANSWER!!!?
    Go with a blouse that comes in at your waist. I hate babydoll tops. They make even skinny girls look pregnant.


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    Anything that goes in below the boobs like this: http://www.viewpoints.com/images/review/鈥?/a>





    Answer mine?


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    go to the websites for;


    forever 21


    and urban outfitters





    cute, and flowy shirts


    perfect for hiding the lower belly fat you dont wanna show
    Get a baby doll top and put a belt on the smallest part your body (your waist) this will his flaws like crazy and accentuate your best parts!%26lt;3
    h%26amp;m

    Thinking of buying a 47';tv whats best LCD or PLASMA ? any advice?

    there are few main differences





    Plasma-


    you will get a greater picture on a plasma





    you will not get a blury picture from any fast motions like football games.





    they do get a little bit hotter then LCDS, which eats a little bit more energy





    plasmas are a lot cheaper then lcd when compared in quality





    99.9% of plasmas have a very reflective glass screen that might make it hard to watch when room is very bright





    start at 42' and up





    rec. Pioneer and samsung





    LCD


    come is very larg amount of sizes





    has an anti glare screen that eliminates some of the glare





    little bit more energy efficient compared to Plasma of the same size.





    cost a little bit more depanding on brand





    cover all screens from 15' and up





    Rec. Samsung and sony and not far under would be lg and toshiba





    ----


    when looking around check out the contrast ratio's the higher the better. for the size that you are looking for look for televisions that are about 10,000 to 1 or better. and when looking around get the 1080p (true HD) which has 1 million more pixels on the screen then the 720p televisions that are little bit less on the price.








    there is no better or worse with LCD or Plasma, they all will last you the same if all conditins were ideal. its really what you are going to use it for.Thinking of buying a 47';tv whats best LCD or PLASMA ? any advice?
    LCD (Liquid Cristal Display) is the new technology, it has a 20 years life expectancy, HD ready, also it looks better, but it is more expensive.





    Plasma is an old technology based on using a light reflecting gas, has a lower life expectancy, it has a lower display quality but it is cheaper than LCD.





    My personal choice was SONY bravia 46”.Thinking of buying a 47';tv whats best LCD or PLASMA ? any advice?
    LCD definitely superior. Plasma screens heat up and are not so sharp. If you are going for 47 inch make sure you get 1080p, as it will be the best quality picture available in high defintion. 40'; Sony is highly reccommended by someone I know.
    According to 63% of the population, you are better off buying a plasma:
    Plasma classically has better pixel by pixel controlling giving a sharper quality to the image. It also has more degrees of contrast - I remember on the Plasma panasonic advertisemtns that there are 3,072 degree of colours (X3 colour planes) across 10 K contrast degrees.





    Plasmas also have sub-pixel controllers / scene controllers that will give richer blacks and vivid colours more character.





    They've ironed out most of the screen burn with better glass now.





    I'd just mind the size of these TVs - they aren't light and the thinner hte better. I did see toshiba was advertising a very flat screen (not sure which this was though.)





    Panasonics don't make LCDs above 32'; so Plasma is the only choice with that particuar brand. Sony's Bravia's are quite expensive but I heard there were issues with processing speed that left the audio lagging behind the video by a fair amount - on the larger screens. Also LCDs, being powered by a single light source projecting from the back of the screen rather than individual pixel controllrs (plasma) may produce pixellation / screen lag for sports on large screens.





    So - mm. Go for plasma but look for a light one.
    ive heard plasma! Lasts longer generally but because of the gas it has to be stored properly or it will not work correctly. the prob with lcd is that pixels can go on the tv, and if that happens u have to get a new screen.
    Plasma definitely. LCD has refresh rate problems over 42'; i.e you have lines going down the screen as its so large it has problems keeping up the refresh rate.


    standard rule of thumb:


    42'; or below - LCD


    42'; or above - plasma





    the gadget show did a feature on this and also ruled plasma was the best option for a larger screen, but not necessarily the most expensive.


    anyone who says LCD TVs are better at this size (47';)clearly does not know what they are talking about. my wife works for a leading hand held computer company and i know the technical bods there, who are at the front of technology research to stay ahead of the competitors. they have also said the same thing and these guys dissect technology for a living to see how it works.
    LCD TVs are a LOT lighter than Plasma. At 47'; LCD will be 50-60 lbs, the same size Plasma will be 80 lbs or more.
    lcd tvs are better than plasma
    LCD but do your research.The most expensive isn't always the best.
    when shopping round for a flatscreen tv i was advised not to buy plasma so i opted for the hitachi 42'; lcd wich came with built in freeveiw and a four year manufactures warranty no problems so far in 12 months
    LCD by a mile. Plasma if touched can ruin, so no parties, no kids etc. LCD is more reliable and clearer.
    ';If we look at LCD technology, it makes use of a back light illumination. With plasma TVs, each bulb is self illuminated. So taking this into account, plasma definitely has a faster response and a wider viewing angle. LCDs definitely look brighter in shops, but plasmas show more picture detail and is much better in living room settings. Both technologies have their advantages and disadvantages.





    When you compare the cost, plasma is more cost effective. For larger screens above 42 inches, we recommend plasma. For lower screen sizes, we recommend LCD TVs.';
    According to the December 2006 issue of Consumer Reports, there's a better technology than either lcd or plasma. It's DLP front projection and the following comment should prove helpful to you.





    Even though the Infocus SP4805 is currently back ordered for $325, it's the best gaming and movie projector deal around from infocus.com %26gt; Store %26gt; See All Home Theatre Projectors %26gt; Green Icon at right for SP4805. It's a DLP front projector with 4X speed color wheel with no apparent viewable rainbow effect.





    Here's an actual movie, ';A Good Woman'; projected onto a 92'; diagonal screen with the SP4805:





    http://g-ecx.images-amazon.com/images/G/…





    Good luck!
    too expensive.


    I have one but i didnt pay for it. I used one of those freebie sites like on NBC - http://www.justgpt.com/freebies.html

    ADVICE ME ON WHICH CAR BEST SUIT MY NEED AS FOLLOWS: DURABLE FOR AFRICA, FUEL ECONOMY, CONFORT & LOW PRICE?

    i want to buy one but i dont know the type that best meet my requirement


    ADVICE ME ON WHICH CAR BEST SUIT MY NEED AS FOLLOWS: DURABLE FOR AFRICA, FUEL ECONOMY, CONFORT %26amp; LOW PRICE?
    Go to kbb.com or edmunds.com and there you will find a tool which can help you to determine the car that's right for you.

    Please help i need advice for selling my xbox,,,ill rate the best answer?

    ok....i have an xbox, all the hookups, 2 controllers and 27 games. Im trying to sell it all.





    theres this one dude that will buy all of it for 200 dollars. Isnt that a ripoff?








    how much should i sell it for?Please help i need advice for selling my xbox,,,ill rate the best answer?
    You might get slightly more from ebay. I sold an XBox, 4 Controllers, Live Mic, and about 20 games for $250 on ebay a few months back.





    If you don't like ebay, I would take the $200.





    Here is an ebay auction that is ending soon that is getting less than that.





    http://cgi.ebay.com/XBOX-Console-with-21鈥?/a>Please help i need advice for selling my xbox,,,ill rate the best answer?
    u can sell it for $200 but if u get $300 u can get the wii,and $600 ps3
    Well it is used


    its not modded.


    games are a dime a dozen now days.





    Isn't a new xbox like $150 or so


    I am sure yours is used deeply





    You can always check the value of the games


    online or ebay - even if you want more for the games





    sell them apart from the xbox or trade them.





    where are you selling it?


    what price do you really want?





    selling it on ebay


    expect FEES on the sale





    http://www.moneyrushonline.com
    Hi, 200 dollars would be about 拢100 here in the uk and that would be about right over here. We just going to sell my sons xbox which has been chipped, got a 120 gig hard drive, about 20 games on the drive plus others, 2 controllers and 2 wireless headsets. Was going to put that on ebay and ask 拢120 for it.





    Anyone interested drop me an email

    Wut is the best way to keep the turtle tank clean and any other helpful advice to take care of a big turtle?

    For your question. To keep it clean, you need a good turtle filter (yes, these are made specifically for turtles) and you'll need to clean the tank about once a week if not more. You'll also need to change the filter once a week if not more which helps a lot too. An easy way to help it stay clean is to either a) feed it in another tank, or b) clean out all of the leftover food 5 minutes after you have fed it. Another way to keep the tank clean on top of all of this is to use ZooMed's ReptiSafe which eats chlorine and chloramites, reduces the pH, rehydrates new arrivals, and a whole list of stuff. You can also use Exo-Terra's Biotize which is micro-organisms that eat your turtles poo. You could add some Anacharis (it's a plant) to the tank and that eats their poo, the turtle can eat it, it's an oxygenizer, looks good in the tank, and doesn't make a big mess as other plants can. You can also add snails to the tank. They may get eatten by the turtle but they're inexpensive and keep the tank clean. Mine go all over the tank (sides, bottom, basking spot, on the plants, everywhere). I use ALL of the methods that I have listed and my tank only needs a cleaning evey other week. It works like a charm and the water stays clear and doesn't ever get to be smelly.


    What to you consider a big turtle? 5'; is not a big turtle. Males, when full grown will be 8-9'; and females are 12'; if not a couple more when full grown. That's the size of a dinner plate, sweety. That's a big turtle. You'll need to have 10 gallons of water to every 1 square in of shell for it to be able to swim, grow, and be happy.


    I'd also give it feeder fish if it's 4'; or bigger. They like it a lot and it's a good part of their diet.


    Hope this was helpful.Wut is the best way to keep the turtle tank clean and any other helpful advice to take care of a big turtle?
    That depends on what kind of turtle you are talking about. Is it aquatic? or land? Because the care is different depending on species.


    As far as cleaning goes; be careful of cleaners. Harsh chemicals can be harmful to your herp. DO NOT USE ANYTHING WITH PINE! which means no pine scent, no pine-sol, anything like that. Pine is toxic to reptiles; and can do some damage if used as a cleaner in your house.





    Your best and safest bet is Dawn dish soap. It is safe for critters; and cleans well. If you have an aquatic turtle; then this won't work. You may be talking about keeping it clean as far as filters go. With Red Eared Sliders, they tend to be quite messy, so try using an undergravel filter for all that junk that falls to the bottom. Do 25-50% water changes frequently.Wut is the best way to keep the turtle tank clean and any other helpful advice to take care of a big turtle?
    use a low water level filter, buy a python or some sort of gravel suction, change 25% of your water each week, reduce the amounts of pellets you are throwing in their and incoperate live food. check out wnyherp.org for the exact dietary needs of your turtle!
    Trisha gave you good advice. The only thing I might add to her recommendations is a free floating aquatic plant called Anachris. It digests turtle waste and will keep your water clearer for a longer period of time. You will need to replace it as it yellows, (or they eat it!)This of course, applies to aquatic turtles only
    To keep it clean get a filter that is ment for twice the size of your tank exsample i fyou have a 20 gallon tank get a filter that has a 40 on the side of the box.


    The general rule for turtles is 10 gallons per inch of shell.


    For extra help go to repticzone .com
    I'm going to assume you are talking about a Red-ear Slider or Painted Turtle. If this is a Box Turtle, tortoise, or some other species, the advice will not work as well.





    1. Big tank! Big tanks are healthier for the turtle. Aim for about 10 gallons of water per inch of shell length. Sounds like more owrk, but done right, big tanks are easier.





    2. Big filter! Turtles are a lot messier than fish. Get yourself a BIG filter, about 3 times bigger than your tank should need for fish. This will cost a ton, but save you a LOT of work!





    3. Change water! Even with a great filter, change about 1/4th of the water every week, vacuuming it off the bottom with a simple siphon vac tool.





    4. Get rid of things in the tank that complicate cleaning. Most kinds of rocks at the bottom make life harder because wastes slip down inside and rot. Fine gravel, or even sand works well. nothing at all is great if you don't need anything there!





    5. Get some living help! Snails, live plants, catfish, algae eaters, etc. will help as well. Not as much as the filter and water changes, but they help.





    6. Less messy food! Some foods are just plain messy. the mroe the food shreds and fowls the water, or the oilier it is, the more of a mess it makes.





    7. use a separate feeding tank. If your turtle will tolerate it, feeding them in an easy to clean tub saves you a lot of work!





    http://www.austinsturtlepage.com has a lot of good articles on this!
    well once a week u should take it out and clean its shell and its tank..put 1 or 2 fish inside the tank with it like goldfish cheap fish that does help...good luck
    Clean it once a week and don't know!

    I need advice on multimedia players. which is the best multimedia player around, which i can install for free?

    i do have real player and microsoft windows media player


    but i would like to know is there any freeware better than these


    i would be gratefull if you can help me with this, thanks.!!!I need advice on multimedia players. which is the best multimedia player around, which i can install for free?
    I like the DivX player because not only does it play the high quality DivX format but also any other kind. Their is also the VLC media player which is well known for being able to play most media types.I need advice on multimedia players. which is the best multimedia player around, which i can install for free?
    I truley believe windows media player is THE best
    Media Player Classic. It's not Microsoft's Media Player despite the name.
    what do you mean if you mean to download music on to an mp3 player or whatever that the place to go is pilot.com you download the program and get all the free music you want if your talkin bout just the multimedia then the best one to go with is the windows media player but go with the newest edition
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  • Parent trying to end 3 year relationship, 10 pts. best answer, need some advice. ?

    My boyfriend and I have been together now for almost 3 years and we're in a long distance relationship. I know people say they don't last and blah blah blah but, this relationship will. We're faithful to one another and everything is going amazing. This summer my boyfriend is suppose to come over and stay at my house for a week. My father has no problem because he wants to meet him and get to know him but, my mother will not push. She say's she likes him and is a very nice boy but it would never work out. I'm 17 and will be 18 very soon and plan to move out with him but, I cannot wait until next summer to see him. We're in love deeply and will do anything for one another, how can I make my mom see that I'm in love and that I think I really have found that one special person? I understand why she may not want him to come over and think he's a molester or an old man but, his parent's could be thinking the same thing about me but, my mom knows I'm none of those. I just can't take it anymore here and I want to move out, but beforehand how do I really get my mother to realize I'm not a baby anymore and that I have really found someone I care about deeply. Plus his parent's want to meet me as well and says I could move in after I graduate if I really wanted to. If you have something smart asss to say, don't waste your time.





    Any advice would help me very much.Parent trying to end 3 year relationship, 10 pts. best answer, need some advice. ?
    Just talk to your parents like what you typed here, you said you are an adult now, not a baby any more; so, talk to them like an adult. Good luck.

    K.. wow i need help like bad! 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER.. I NEED ADVICE! PLZ HELP?

    im a teenager.. still in highschool ..


    ok so i have been dating my bf for 2 years..


    i thought i loved him.. i thought we would be together for ever and have kids together one day and that hole ordeal


    but i dont get a long w. his mom..


    i kinda get a long with his dad..


    his gramas kinda ocward to be around


    and we have been kinda distant feeling ourselves





    welp.. now theres this other guy and i love his family and i love the way he thinks and does things.. he's awesome..


    i cheated on my bf with him..


    :[[


    he knows i have a boyfriend


    and he's trying to help me figure things out right now.


    the thing is..


    i think i would rather be with him, but he's leaving for college in 2 months. :/





    now i just feel like a total whore who doesnt know what she wants





    please give me some advice








    no mean answers or comments.. please.. im really just not in the mood .. i really need help here..





    thanks in advance for your answers!K.. wow i need help like bad! 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER.. I NEED ADVICE! PLZ HELP?
    i think you know what you want,sure maybe you should have not cheated on him but its your past and its done. what does your heart tell.dont be thinking about your future yet like having kids what do you feel now? dont worry about him leaving for college if you love him its worth it .. i mean my sister had a long distance relationship for 3 years and they are getting married. and just so you know,how a guy treats his mom is probably how he'll treat you especially the way he acts and his family acts that matters alot on how he'll be like,this i know from what happened to my parents..so whoever it is that you love and the family is good then i suggest you take one big step and be with him in the end your heart is always right and what you feel..K.. wow i need help like bad! 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER.. I NEED ADVICE! PLZ HELP?
    i think you should go with the second guy.


    he seems to be someone you feel more comfortable around and that counts a lot in a relationships.


    you thought you leveed the first guy but you really didnt.


    dont lead him on if you really dont love him.


    just break it off and be with the one you truely love.
    Tell your bf the truth! see how he responds and you will see if you're love really is unconditional, I mean that's your answer right there! Find out how he reacts to this, you will really see what you two have or don't have! I hoped I helped and good luck!!!!
    it seems you like this other guy more then your bf. I say go for him. tell your bf the truth, that it is not working out

    Which commissioning programs in the Marines, would be the best option (need your advice)?

    For enlisted people, you see I am deciding if I wanna do the IIADT or the Split option while I am on college (you know to actually do something with my life while I am studying at the same time) now I don't want to be stuck as an enlisted personnel after I graduate in college, I mean no offense but that would be a waste of a Bachelor's degree, given that I can have a commission with it without having to be enlisted.





    So which one of the enlisted to officer program would I have the better shot at and why, I know its not the Meritorious Commissioning Program (MCP) cause let's face it the chances of me getting commissioned that way is very VERY slim. So which one?





    Enlisted Commissioning Program (ECP)?


    or


    Marine Enlisted Commissioning Education Program (MECEP)?


    or


    Join after college graduation?





    Thank you very much for your advice.Which commissioning programs in the Marines, would be the best option (need your advice)?
    go to marineofficer.com, there are many different options on that site, i would go to osc or something like it, you train during the summer at college and when you graduate you are 2nd lieutenantWhich commissioning programs in the Marines, would be the best option (need your advice)?
    If I were you, I would join Naval ROTC as a Marine Option, and go through OCS and get your comissioning that way. The reason why going through enlisted is not the best route if you truly wish to be an officer is that your probability of appointment is very low.

    Which commissioning programs in the Marines, would be the best option (need your advice)?

    For enlisted people, you see I am deciding if I wanna do the IIADT or the Split option while I am on college (you know to actually do something with my life while I am studying at the same time) now I don't want to be stuck as an enlisted personnel after I graduate in college, I mean no offense but that would be a waste of a Bachelor's degree, given that I can have a commission with it without having to be enlisted.





    So which one of the enlisted to officer program would I have the better shot at and why, I know its not the Meritorious Commissioning Program (MCP) cause let's face it the chances of me getting commissioned that way is very VERY slim. So which one?





    Enlisted Commissioning Program (ECP)?


    or


    Marine Enlisted Commissioning Education Program (MECEP)?


    or


    Join after college graduation?





    Thank you very much for your advice.Which commissioning programs in the Marines, would be the best option (need your advice)?
    go to marineofficer.com, there are many different options on that site, i would go to osc or something like it, you train during the summer at college and when you graduate you are 2nd lieutenantWhich commissioning programs in the Marines, would be the best option (need your advice)?
    If I were you, I would join Naval ROTC as a Marine Option, and go through OCS and get your comissioning that way. The reason why going through enlisted is not the best route if you truly wish to be an officer is that your probability of appointment is very low.

    I need advice on which digital camera is best suited for my purposes. I like my Olympus D-520 2.0 MP...?

    I take snapshots of the kids and such, and I use my camera for making picutures for my website and my husband's website. Mine are usually outdoor shots of my miniature horses. I take pictures when he performs and the lighting is usually horrible for taking pictures and I don't get many good ones. I'd like to find a reasonably priced camera that can take good pictures under all these conditions, is easy to use, and has a USB cable so that getting pictures from camera to computer is easy. My Olympus D-520 was almost perfect for my purposes (except for movment and low light) but I broke the door that holds the batteries in. Thanks for your input!I need advice on which digital camera is best suited for my purposes. I like my Olympus D-520 2.0 MP...?
    my suggestion


    go to yahoo shopping


    digital cameras


    digital camera GUIDE


    be sure to check titles on the left side


    the guide should answer your questions

    ADVICE NEEDED...Tongue piercing...BEST ANSWER?

    I Got my tongue pierced on Wednesday and it didnt hurt during or after . . . However the tip of my tongue was numb ... its now Friday and if the bar moves i feel a little bit of a sharp pain well it was like that when i woke up, now The sharp pain is kinda goin just gettin numb the swellin is still dere my cuz says dis happened 2 her . . . ANY ONE ELSE EXPERIENCED THIS? . . .xADVICE NEEDED...Tongue piercing...BEST ANSWER?
    um, i've had my tongue pierced for a year and after i got it done it didn't hurt at all until the next day i got swollen and stayed that way for two weeks. i kept it clean everyday and then after like two weeks i finally changed it. it was fine after that.. about the pain, i never really had it - its going to hurt because your tongue is not used to having a bar right in the middle of it? and mine was numb too its only because its slightly hitting a nerve (nothing big really] but i hardly change my tongue ring now because everytime i do, my tongue goes a little bit numb. i hope this helped. anymore questions, email me at younqxlovex3@yahoo.com (:ADVICE NEEDED...Tongue piercing...BEST ANSWER?
    if there is a sharp pain when the bar moves that is a very bad sign. you should consult your piercer. i'm concerned about this numbing too... i hope he didn't hit a nerve!! if you talk to your piercer and he doesn't really say much, talk to a doctor. the doctor will probably advise you to take it out, but at least you won't risk losing your tongue!
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  • I'm in love with my ex boyfriend's (my best friend) cousin, need advice.?

    I'm so in love with this guy, he's all I think about. I saw him at a party and he kissed me after that I was head over heels for him, we even had relations, and talked about us getting together. He is also 10 years older than me, that's kind of a downfall. When my ex found out about the whole deal, he flipped, but now he knows that I really like his cousin and he's half way okay with it. The other bad thing is is that this guy that I'm so in love with is afraid to even talk to me because of the problems with his family, but when we talked he said that he did want to be with me, I'm so confused and I don't know what to do. Should I call this guy and tell him how I feel or not?I'm in love with my ex boyfriend's (my best friend) cousin, need advice.?
    well your ex is just jealous because that is not him up there with you i would go out with him and if your ex still have felling for you ask him and see good luck!!!!!!!!

    Hair curling? Best products and creams? any advice?

    Hi i love the look of nice soft curls.


    But i cant seem to do it the way i like it?


    Do u kno of any good curling wand brands?


    and creams for hair or anything good :) Or do Rollers work?


    Thanks heaps!





    Heres a picture of what i want! and dont kno how to do.


    http://fileserver.glam.com/2/-1615445d0c95fbbfc5.jpgHair curling? Best products and creams? any advice?
    rollers will make those curls, but don't leave them in too long. it's best to use either large rollers or medium rollers. also, you can use a spiral curling iron. conair makes a good iron for about 20 bucks at target.Hair curling? Best products and creams? any advice?
    Heated rollers I think work the best when your trying to achieve a look like this. When you put the rollers in your hair make some of the roll under %26amp; some of them roll outwards so that it flips up. After you apply the rollers in your hair %26amp; spray a little hair spray on them. Then when they are completely cooled take them out. The curls aren't going to look attractive at this point, haha. But after you take them all out let them cool like that for at least 2 mins. then run your fingers through your hair %26amp; break the curls up. It will give you the look that is in your picture that you provided. Then just makes sure you spray the heck out of your hair so they stay.





    My favorite curling product is bed head- -Curls rock. I would also recommend bed head- -Root boost. You could apply that at your roots while your hair is in rollers it will give you a great amount of volume.





    %26amp; then if there are a few pieces that are not looking cute run a curling iron through them a good brand is conair. hope this helped.
    I dont know....but if you go to one of those expensive hair salons and give them that picture, they can probably make your hair like that, and if they mess up ask theme for your money back!!!! That simple!!!

    Help! ASAP! best friend trouble! i need advice! pleeeeeaze read?

    my best friend is being a jerk she said ';your ugly. and you will never get a boyfriend.your glasses are ugly to you should get contacts.im pretty thats why guys like me'; but she dosent even have a boyfriend!!!!! UGH! she just randomly said that then she starts trash talking her little 5yearold sister saying ';Karlee,your ugly i hate you..your hair is ugly!!!are you mentzlly challenged?';





    what should i do?Help! ASAP! best friend trouble! i need advice! pleeeeeaze read?
    it appears to me that she is trying to build herself up by telling everyone elts that theyr ugly. that may just be because she thinks shes ugly. try talking to her (when she is calm) and ask her what is going on and why exactly is she saying such things. if she continues with the abuse (yes that is verbal abuse) id seriously reconcider the friendship. you want friends who are nice and support you, not ones who belittle out of the blue. trust me i had a friend like that during middle school, you dont want to be with her.





    also if you can try to get her little sister out of the way by offering to babysit or something.Help! ASAP! best friend trouble! i need advice! pleeeeeaze read?
    Tell her off. You know that your not ugly. Ask her why she doesn't have a boyfriend if she's 'pretty'.





    Go up to a jerk guy with your friend and ask him if he thinks she pretty. Chances are he'll stutter or say no if hes a asshole.





    She might be PMSing. Ditch her. Find new friends. Tell her you don't want to be her friend. Seriously, LEAVE HER. After you tell her off and what-not, ditch her.
    ignoreee herrrr, find better friends.


    every girls beautiful, she's probably unhappy with herself and maybe somethings going on that you don't know about. maybe you could politley ask her if theres anything wrong. but dont do it snotty.


    good luck(:
    uh she sould look in the mirror wait, she'll BREAK IT....anywayzz she seems like the mentally challegend one..
    ignore her theres nothing wrong with you :))). . .shes just not happy with her self

    Help! I think i just seriously hurt my best friend! I need advice!?

    Okay heres what happened.


    Me and Ron have know eachother since we were like 2 and have been best friends eversince (I'm a girl btw) Anyway, as we were growing up there was never anything more than a solid friendship, however the other day he confessed his love to me and I really didnt want to return it coz he's like my brother and it would be weird. So i just told him that. We're both 15 and the before that incident he told me he was feeling really depressed and had thought about suicide.


    I'm worried that my rejection may push him of the edge and I have no idea what i can say to him because being romantically involved with him is definately not an option and he just can't accept that.


    I NEED YOUR HELP PLEASE!! WHAT WOULD YOU DO, IF U WERE ME??Help! I think i just seriously hurt my best friend! I need advice!?
    oh my your in a tricky situation my dear!





    ok so hmmm


    you need to show your friend ron that even though you may not love him romantically you still love him and theres alot to look forward to in life make an extra effort to visit him and hangout with him maybe make a surprise visit to his house in the morning to make sure he knows that you guys r still friends!!


    even if its akward man make it happen make him talk make him laugh





    goood luck!!Help! I think i just seriously hurt my best friend! I need advice!?
    YOU need to get your point across somehow, put be gentle about it, because honey it could turn into one of those ';IF I CAN'T HAVE YOU THEN NO ONE CAN!'; situations, be careful but be wary of your friend...
    Cheer him up! Go together to both of your fave hangout and talk about both of your fave topics! That could take his mind of his depression.





    Goodluck!
    I think best friends make the best lovers, but that's just me... Good luck though :(

    Ok.....I seriously need help with this!! **Best person with the advice will get 10 points**?

    The thing is that I'm a sophomore right now and I will be becoming a junior starting in sept. I took plain Living environments( Biology) this year. %26lt;Got an 88 on the regents!%26gt;....well I was planning to take to take an A.P course for Biology in my upcoming junior year. But since I'm already packed with so many classes I'm planning to take the course in my senior year. So basically that would be a year gap in between . So I'm wondering??.....Am I going to forget all the knowledge I have about this subject or what??....I'm confused.....I mean my teacher would recommend the class to me since she gave me an 100 for her class ,but can anyone give me some advice?.....Should I still take the A.P course in my senior year and skipping a year in between......I will have to skip the year since I can't take it next year!!...But I want A.P Biology !!..Plus...I will be planning to take the SAT2...Biology%26gt;....can anyone PLEASE!! give me any advice on if I should do what I'm intentionally planning toOk.....I seriously need help with this!! **Best person with the advice will get 10 points**?
    Well AP biology at my high school seems to be a very hard class. It will involve a lot of memorization and long hours. If you have the time in your junior year to study and do well, then take AP bio and it will help you do well on the SAT2. From experiences in AP classes though, the basic subjects don't really even seem to help very much in an AP class, for how much information is thrown at you. If you wait one year, you will still remember some basics. Either way, you will still have to learn a lot more things. If you plan on passing the AP test with a high grade then maybe taking AP bio when you have more free time to study would be a better idea. If you think you will have the time in your junior year to take it without becoming a stress case, or doing poorly, then sign up for AP biology. Junior years are the hardest, and it seems that if you wait one year you will have more time to study and do well in the class. And you will have less stress in your busy junior year. It seems that the perks of taking it in your senior year are much more valuable than the information you will forget in a year. But really, the decision is up to you. You seem capable of taking AP bio both years. Good luck!Ok.....I seriously need help with this!! **Best person with the advice will get 10 points**?
    I don't think you'll forget that much...you could do independent study to keep up on what you've already learned.

    What Should I Do??? 10 Points to Best Answer with Mature Advice!!?

    My bf and I just broke up because aparently i was asking ';stupid questions';. We broke up before and ever since then i've been paranoid that we'll break up again so i'd always ask him- is he sure he loves me, is he angry with me, does he love me etc. i know its stupid but somehow the comfort of his response always made me feel better. Last night after a party he was acting indifferently always thorwing around the phrase ';i dont care'; so I asked him if something was wrong and he said nothing. And i asked him if he was angry with me or something. he completely got angry and said,


    '; you know what , i'm tired of your stupid questions. if you're so sure i dont love you why dont you just leave me alone. Dont bother me any more.';


    I diddnt expect that responce at all. Hes so angry. He doesnt want to talk at all. What should i do??? I realize now its my fault and that I shouldnt have kept nagging him about it but it seems liek its too late. Should I just give him space?What Should I Do??? 10 Points to Best Answer with Mature Advice!!?
    Leave him alone for a couple of weeks.





    You're doing either one of two things right now - either you're making yourself look needy and insecure with all your questions and he finds it unattractive, or you're putting him under too much pressure to prove his love for you all the time.





    You have to keep in mind that men - in general - don't like to talk about emotional issues all the time. They don't like to have to tell someone they love them every minute of every day, they don't want to have to prove that they aren't mad at you all the time. They just want to have a good time with you.





    So if he ever does take you back, stamp down your insecurities and learn how to just go with the flow. His actions will tell you how he feels about you, you don't have to keep asking him.





    In the meantime - give him a couple of weeks to miss you. Don't say a word to him. At the end of those two weeks, call him up and ask if he'd like to go see a movie or something. If he says yes, then go out and just have fun with him. Don't say a word about your separation or your feelings. Don't ask him if he's been upset with you. Just have a good time.





    But if he still doesn't want to see you after two weeks, then move on. It sounds as if you may be the type of person who is able to easily communicate her feelings, and you may find you're better off with a man who is able to communicate on your level. If your bf doesn't want you back, then this will leave the door open for you to find someone who can better appreciate your personality.





    Good luck!What Should I Do??? 10 Points to Best Answer with Mature Advice!!?
    maybe you should try explaining that it comforts you to hear his response. i can see where hes comming from, but if he really did love u, he wouldnt care that u kept asking him. so maybe send him a message on myspace or facebook or messenger if he has any of those, if not ask him if you can talk to him for a lil bit, and tell him what you said here.
    give him space. HE's in a situation in which he feels like he has lost control because he doesnt have your trust, that is why he got angry and probably because you caught him at a bad time, give him a few days 1-2 then contact him and before you do, pray for a peaceful interaction
    If he doesn't respect you and how you feel then he's not worth


    it.Find someone who will treat you with the love you deserve.


    It's not your fault if he acts like a jerk.
    its too long for me to read, but just follow your heart.
    that is called nagging, and who wants to put up with that?
    Please leave that jerk alone!!! it sounds to me like he may be a coward, (looking for a reason to get rid of you) you shouldnt have to ASK him if he is mad,upset, and you surely shouldnt have to ask him if he loves you, his actions tell whether or not he cares for you, or if he loves you, remember this, A persons ACTIONS will reveal the sincerity of whats in their heart. you should sense his love for you, by the way he treats you. It doesnt sound like to me he is much of a boyfriend or you would have felt content and he is the one that should be making you FEEL loved, maybe he wanted out, and he is just using this excuse of why he is breaking up, you shouldnt be calling him or emailing if he was a real boyfriend that really cared for you, then he would have called back, apparently this is just a outy for him, dont chase him just get on with your life and forget about him, and be thankful your able to get out now before he mentaly abuses you!! GOOD LUCK
    Dont sell yourself short. You should be able to feel comfortable with a boyfriend. Try having a relationship where youre not worried about him leaving you.





    If hes getting angry with you that easily its not a good sign.





    Nagging is bad - try not to do it. But you really dont want to be with someone who says your questions are stupid do you?





    Be a little more hard to get next time. Youre worth it. Have confidence in yourself, and boost the ego of the guy you choose and all generally goes well.
    U arent paranoid or anything like that. u just sound confused. just wait. He could just be in a bad mood or maybe he relly does feel that way. U werent wrong to ask those questions. If I were u Id send that email. Dont though. Give it time. If nothing happens then just say it's over. Hang out with your friends and try to forget him. Don't try to change his mind though and give him space. good luck.
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  • 17 and moving out of home with best friend and boyfriend? advice?

    okay. lol i know this seems dodgy but we all have full time jobs and our parents all want us to move out. so isnt that the best idea? finding people you trust most to share a house with? we will be 18, 18, and 17 when we actually go for a house and my friends mom is helping us so it should all be fine. anyone who has moved out early have any advice?


    rent is around 300 a week so thats 100 each. and we have a refridgerator and microwave so far. weve got a few months to get as ready as we can. k thanks17 and moving out of home with best friend and boyfriend? advice?
    This will be the part of your life you'll always remember and have a laugh about.


    I'm pleased to see you are organised....so let the adventure begin!!17 and moving out of home with best friend and boyfriend? advice?
    The rent does sound expensive. That is a lot of money to find every month - especially when you need to find money for gas, electric, water rates, council tax, food - not to mention any fun purchases!





    The best thing to do is to save a bit of money and look for somewhere with cheaper rent. Also, having some money in the bank will really help you if something goes wrong in the house and you need to replace it - or if you overspend one month.





    Try checking out ebay and car boot sales for furniture and furnishings - you can get some really great second hand things that would save you a fortune..
    I wish you guys didnt have to do that. please stay on birth control. anyway thats cheap rent, so you guys should be able to afford that. Go to yard sells for furniture, and keep your valuable protected. Other people they may bring home can be theives. You never know.
    1. The rent seems quite steep.





    2. I have many stories of best mates who move in together and grew to hate each other.





    Otherwise, i think it's all good fun, if you can balance the responsibilities of running a house.






    Ok if you earn your keeps, if you're moving with other dependents also; you will be an independent dependents. You're just running away from something you could not keep up.
    Sorry I give it about 3 months Max. Hopefully I am wrong Best of luck
    its a good idea. save as much money as possible.





    but it might be a bit awkward if you break up with your bf though..
    The rent is toooo much. Especially for just starting out. But wherever you decide to live make sure EVERYBODY signs the lease so if things turn bad and somebody wants to move out...you wont be stuck paying the rent alone. As for the 17 yr old...they cant sign until theyre 18. So you may want to think about that. That could turn out bad.


    I know its may sound like it could be awkward...but you need to sit down.....write out rules everybody agrees to and sign it. If you dont do this prior to moving in...you will regret it. Trust me. It may sound all fun right now..but you never know a person until you live with them. And a lot of times people dont like what they see.


    I hope Im not sounding negative...I'm just tryna keep it real.


    It could be the best or it could be the worst....depending on how you go about things. Either way...its definetly going to be a learning experience.


    To get stuff for your house, try yard sales,thrift stores...Craigslist has a section to buy household items,furniture....even a free section. You'd be surprised at the good stuff you can find.


    Good Luck

    What should I do about one of my best friends? Need some advice pretty please? :D?

    Hello everyone. Hope you are all well! =)





    Well... I have this one best friend I really care about. We've always been very good friends until about half a year ago. I myself and her other friends feel like we're losing her.


    She goes into these moments where she won't speak to us for weeks and ignores every phone call, text or conversation with us. She barely socializes with anyone anymore.


    She has this boyfriend she's been with for almost 3 years and she is so convinced she's going to marry him. She is ALWAYS texting him and when she's not doing that she's with him. Even at sleepovers she always talks to him on her phone for hours, even though it's specifically a LADIES night! There's just no more room for us in her life!


    Recently I suspect that something hasn't been going well for about a month now with her boyfriend. I am scared she's going to take her life or something like that if he ever left her. She gave up everything for him, even us. He is her life and I dunno how she is going to deal without him if she doesn't seem to want us anymore.


    I talked to her recently about this and she told me her parent's separation have made her isolating everyone. I get that but I honestly think the boyfriend is the main cause of all this.


    I don't know how to be there for her. Or if I should. I've been friends with her since middle school and I want to be there for her like she has been there for me but I don't know how to let her let me into her life again.


    Sorry if this is confusing. I dunno how to word this any other way.


    Thanks for your advice! Greatly appreciate it! :)What should I do about one of my best friends? Need some advice pretty please? :D?
    Big trauma.To mostly listen and share her concerns will be very important to her.Maybe break the cycle of thought by recalling happy times for you two.Maybe go shopping together,dinner a trip to Disneyland,etc.


    It will be very important to help her forget about the past events that really bother her and to look ahead and beyond.


    3 years together is like being married and it makes you just sick inside to separate and then on top is a separation of her parents and that is very rough to deal with as well.


    Best wishes to you and your friend on a better fun filled happy experience of letting go of the past.

    I lost my cousin he was my best friend.. need your advice pls?

    My fav cousin didnt tell me he was going to get married..i feel left out?


    Me (22) and my cousin (32) were like the best friends whenever we were together. We knew eachother since we were young but i couldnt see him often cause he lives in another country. Last time i saw him was in London 2004 when we went to visit our family there for a month. We had so much fun and laughed alot together. We just had this great vibe, i really felt he was like my best friend.





    Then something happend in 2007 my ''father'' attacked me and my sisters and he got arrested, and my own brother was the one who setted it up. So i think that the news got spread around to the other family members ofcourse and my brother told them probably alot of nasty lies about me. Cause he hates me to death since we were lil.





    Yet i had the courage to send my cousin an sms to ask him if he is alright and that i love him no matter what but he didnt react. Later i heard that he got married, and that there was a wedding even my brother went there and no one told me he would. I was so sad why didnt he let me know? We were so cool. So i decided to back off. Untill i today i saw a pic of him and his bride made me all sad again, that i was left out. Cause i really love him. And i dont want to call him, i think that him not reacting back was already good enough.





    What do you think i should do tho..?? i feel really sad, i didnt deserve all these lies and nasty thing said about me. I know my self and i am a very loving person with a good heart.





    Thank you for your answer i appreciate it. :)I lost my cousin he was my best friend.. need your advice pls?
    you poor thing, that sucks! me %26amp; my brother were really tight till he got married now we never talk. he is just too busy for me or half the family. so ive given up. it really usett me at the start but you will get over it. i have. good luck.

    I need some advice.One of my best friends has not sat with me during lunch that much what should i do?????????

    but we have been friends for a long time and she will only talk to me on the bus.but her barely ever sitting at the same table with me has lasted about 2 or less years.I need some advice.One of my best friends has not sat with me during lunch that much what should i do?????????
    well all youve got to do is ask her on the bus'' do you want to sit with me at lunch tomorrow?''. taht is all youve got to do.I need some advice.One of my best friends has not sat with me during lunch that much what should i do?????????
    My suggestion is to find your own set of new friends. You all are apparently growing apart and there isnt to much you can do about it. You just have to be the bigger person and still keep in contact. Find something that you both have in common and set aside a special day just for the two of you. Go bowling, movies, shopping or maybe a sleep-over. When you do have time alone with her like on the bus dont be upset or ask why you all arent spending time together just spark a conversation use that time you all do have together wisely. It will work out.
    ask her whats wrong!!!!
    you schould follow her to were she sits

    For those who give advice on ';marriage and Divorce';. Do you give advice that will get you the ';best answer'; or

    Or do you give the advice that the person needs to hear? Lately, I've noticed that my answers are in no way going to get me the ';best answer'; because those answers need some tough logical esteem spanking content.





    What factors do you keep in mind when giving the best advice you can give? Do you tickle their ears, or burn them with rebuke?For those who give advice on ';marriage and Divorce';. Do you give advice that will get you the ';best answer'; or
    I never tell a partner to leave unless that is the question. As in: ';How do I leave?';





    I try to address the issue at hand, and encourage friendship and respect in the relationship.





    Also, if the resolving the issue actually is the asker's responsibility, then I say so.For those who give advice on ';marriage and Divorce';. Do you give advice that will get you the ';best answer'; or
    Yeah, I think it's because there are a lot of young and immature kids in this forum, they are really playing a game for points with silly and stupid answers. i reckon they should have a forum for the over 40's.
    I give them the best advice I can based on my knowledge and experience.





    I feel that people (usually) post serious questions here, and have (usually) real problems they need help with. If I answered looking for a best, it would be a waste of their time and mine.





    Good question, by the way.
    when I answer a question either I provide information I've read, researched, and know to be true, or from other peoples' experiences, or I provide information from my own experiences, and I let the reader decide which is best for them (only they know). Whether or not the reader feels the answer is focused and direct is their own opinion. ';I'; feel the answer is focused, direct and from experience. If they ask for a specific answer, i.e. ';where can I buy this or that';...I'll give them a place where they can buy it. I don't answer all questions that arrive in my email. 99% of the time I choose questions that I do know the answer to.
    I ONLY go to this when I feel like seeing if someone else has or is in the same situation as I am or have been, usually my answers are related to personal experiances and are usually reflected in my answers. I actually read one of yours a few minutes ago, thought it was quite blunt yet to the point, some of the questions AND answers her are quite ridiculous, and sometimes are coming from obviously immature people in addition, answers are sometimes quite rude and critical, to the point that these people regardless or age/situation are in fact asking for advise but I sometimes, actually quite often see alot of snotty comments, I've only asked 2 questions and got a short but snotty answer from someone who apparently does not read well. But then again, some of these questions, while partially anonymous, I think are uncalled for on such a public forum.
    that is not my primary goal. i try to give help by sharing what think is right by using some of my own experiences.
    I'm only on here to be a smart ***. People must like it because they give me 10 points with lots of ';lols.';
    I call it like I see it, and if the person likes it, great, and if not, then maybe it gives them something new to consider.
    Fair question - it comes down to motives, I suppose.





    I think the motive for initially asking the question is because someone is hurting.


    I'd like to think this forum can offer wisdom and perspective and actually help people on some level; even if it's just support.





    Ultimately, all most all of my answers remind that a relationship is the responsibility of both, so placing the burden back on the asker is common.





    I hope that makes sense!
    I try to use a little tact and/or humor. First off about 75% of the questions out here are complete crap. People pretending to be something that they aren't. I don't bother to answer questions that make me think that. But when I do get a question I want to answer, I try to place myself into the situation or see if I have known someone in that type of situation. I give the best answer I can. What they do with it after that is their choice. Don't tell em what they want to hear, tell them what you believe they need to hear.
    I tell them how I see their situation standing from the outside. Often I've been in their situation and I can share how I've handled it, if it was successful or not etc.
    I am not a professional in dispensing advice but I read through the questions and I answer based on common sense and sometimes instincts.


    Tough and long questions are not for me, so I go for the keywords in them.


    Sometimes, it takes someone else to read through something so complicated to get the asker to see the real situation.


    Tickle or burn, I just hope my answers do not do more harm.
    I try to give my honest opinion about any given situation based upon the information that is given. I try to answer by giving my advice on how I would react to certain situations...but it is so easy to be the one giving the advise if you are not the one in the situation. I think we can predict how we would handle a situation....but I really think that when our emotions take over....we will react based upon those emotions and not necessarily on common sense. As far as getting the best answer..No I am not looking for that...I couldn't care less...I just want to offer support and any insight that I can for others.
    i give answers based on my experiences and trying to save the 'asker' from even more heartbreak. i believe that when someone is hurt it's so hard to sort things out. that's why we're here to present to them the other side of the coin and not be biased about things.
    I think of how I would handle the problem. Sometimes I can relate to the question because I've been there, sometimes not. Although I try not to do it, there are times when I get a little annoyed by people's stupidity that I might not give as level headed an answer as I normally would. I get a little irked when people list off the problems in their relationship and it's a huge laundry list of things that should have kept them out of the relationship in the first place. I shake my head at many questions on here, not only in this section but others as well.
    answer the best i can based on my interpretation of the question posted.





    its not about the points.
    I tend only to tell them how I would deal with it if I were in the situation and what I know to be true having/going through a divorce not to get me the ';best answer'; I don't care about that b/c I still get 2 points just for answering :-)
    based on my past experiences and my lifes worth of learning, i tell them the truth the best i can. i could care less about points, i care about ppl. and when i tell them the truth if they get mad at what i said, then they really prolly didn't want an answer anyway.


    one example a week or two back that comes 2 mind was a gal who said she divorced her hubby a year ago, he immediately remarried, she was still sleeping with him behind his wifes back and she doesn't know what 2 do now b'cause he told her if she tells his wife he'll file 4 custody of their children...she wanted advice on what 2 do...she should have asked 4 that advice before she kept sleeping with a newly married man weather he was her ex or not, or she already knew the consequences...believe me if she really doesn't know what to do in that case herself, no one on here can help her. i was really tempted 2 answer her by asking her age and iq.


    most of the ppl here asking questions want real answers and they get the best i have when i answer. the rest of the ppl just need a poke in the head b'cause in their question they list they have already answered if for themselves and don't need anyone elses advice.
    I usually only answer questions that I think I can make a contribution too. I have 37 years of marriage experience and Hopefully I have learned some things that might help others. Points don't really matter to me.
    What's an esteem spanking?
    I just give my own honest person opinion, whether from personal experience or someone I know going/went through same thing...
    I can be very blunt. I always give answers and advice that I think the person needs to hear. I'm not in any competition.
    Receiving a best answer is always appreciated, but I never make that my goal when answering. I answer as honestly and truthfully with the intention of assisting another. I do not try to be cute or clever and my answers come from my heart and experiences in life. If any answer helps a person get through a rough time, that is all the award I need.
    My advice is just that, my advice. This is what I'd do in that situation. If I get the best answer, that's great, but not what I'm shooting for.

    What would you do in this situation / how best to act? (writing advice)?

    ok, so, in my story, my main character has accidental drunken sex with another character. (they both eventually end up with other people).





    she used to have a widely known crush on the guy, but she doesn't anymore. when she wakes up (after the sex), she completely regrets it. (the sex)





    what should i have her do to make this okay? she's associated with him through siblings / friend of a friends, so she can't just leave without repercussions. (she could leave)





    what would you do in this situation? (considering you have no idea if he likes her or if it was a mistake on his part too)





    i thought about it, and in that situation (waking up first) i'd leave and pray he was too drunk to remember, but he might have then thought he had a dream about having sex with her, and grow an unwanted crush.What would you do in this situation / how best to act? (writing advice)?
    They were both drunk? I'd act like I didn't remember it if he brought it up. Gets me off the hook (even if everyone finds out we did have sex, I can play the ';I was so drunk! I don't remember it'; card). I doubt he'll develop a crush on her just because of that night. When he sees he was that unmemorable he might become insecure, or he might just pretend nothing happened as well. Maybe he won't even remember! I hope they used a condom. Sounds to me like the girl kinda still does have a crush on the guy...why else would she be wondering if it meant anything to him?
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  • I think im in love with my best friend. (need major advice)?

    me and him have been best friends for four years...


    only i had lost touch with him recently due to him having a girlfriend who highly disapproved of me even speaking with him.. so our friendship dwindled.


    we tried numerous times to continue txting or phone talking.. since we werent allowed to see each other.. but his girlfriend didnt like it.. so i respected her feelings and spoke with her girl to girl.. and i completly understood where she was coming from...





    but that was a few months ago and now we have lost touch....





    UNTIL LAST NIGHT...


    he called and said he was having girlfriend troubles.





    and that he just needed to talk to his best friend..





    so he came over to my house and we were lazy and just hung out in my bed room until 2 am just talking and talking away....





    and it wasnt until last night that i realized how much i missed him..





    and now.. i cant stop thinking of him.. and how much i hate that his girlfriend is hurting him right now...





    shes practically cheating on him.. and hes torn up..





    but yet he still claims that hes in loooove with her and will never leave her...





    and now im starting to have feelings for him.. that i think were there all along..





    but ahhhhhhhhhh


    i dont even know.


    i cant stop thnking of him though..








    and i need to know whether i should tell him .....that i feel this way.. that i get upset when he speaks of her.. cause shes not right for him..


    and that.. im his best friend why not love him..\





    should i tell him....





    or..


    would that make things akward..?








    or would it totally ruin our friendship?





    has anyone had to deal with this before//





    i dont even know what to do and i need major advise.I think im in love with my best friend. (need major advice)?
    It would probably ruin your friendship, but you two haven't been connecting lately anyway, so what do you really have to lose?


    10% or more chance you get the gold so why don't you ask him out?

    I am having problems with my two best friends. I need advice.?

    I am a junior in high school. Since the beginning of the year, my two best friends, who have never talked to eachother before, decide to start talking. Soon they go out. Ever since then everything little thing has changed and i am losign them both. The guy best friend has stopped talking to me because he thinks i secretly like her. I dont but that is what he thinks. Me and him have fought maybe six times. Those are the first six and i have known him since kindergarten. The girl lies about everythin and ignores me for him. She only talks to me when they fight so she can let things out, but besides that she ignores me. What should i do? Should i accept it wont work out and just find new friends? please help..I am having problems with my two best friends. I need advice.?
    I say walk away from them both and if they are truly your friends then they will notice when you are out of their lives and then want you back


    You know what they say:


    You never know what you've got until it's goneI am having problems with my two best friends. I need advice.?
    if they are really ypur friends thel notice your pain talk to them its the best way
    wow DONT listen to her


    why bother being there for her if she's not there for you?


    wheres the logic in that.





    id understand if she's there for you when your deepest in need, but if she isn't forget it.


    it takes two to build a relationship(friend)
    I would think you should leave them for a while, hang out with someone else. If they come back and say they're sorry, they're your true friends. But if they don't, still keep in touch a little bit but if they avoid you, they might be shy,embarressed, or guilty. If they never come back, find new friends, get over it.
    I'm not so sure you'd be capable of finding new friends because what you describe of this girl doesn't sound like a friend to me. You need to learn a bit of self respect and get yourself a spine.

    PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION! i will choose best answer by whose advice works?

    How can i bond with people quicker?


    what should i say to them and stuff like that?


    its not that i don't have any friends or anything...there are just these 2 people that i am friends with, but not GREAT friends. i want to bond with them quicker. what should i do?








    and i have one more question that has nothing to do with this. i am on the dance team and we are having a send-off assembly for nationals (woo) and we are doing a guy girl routine.


    the thing is that you can request a guy to dance with or a guy can request you. a popular senior guy requested me, because he thinks i am cute. he isn't great looking or anything (not that he is ugly haha), but he is funny i guess. he kind of intimidates me though...my question is, when the time comes that we have to learn the routine together, what could i do to make it not awkward for me?PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION! i will choose best answer by whose advice works?
    Take your attention off how he is, and put it on who he is as a friend, nothing else.





    Be yourself.





    Be in the moment.





    Have fun with it.





    What is the worst that could happen? Nothing.PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION! i will choose best answer by whose advice works?
    Try asking your friends to hang out sometime, do something fun.





    As for the guy thing, just be yourself and dont worry about learning the routine together. Relax, and it wont be akward. The more you think about it, the more akward it would be. dont be nervous.
    just get them talking about themselves, give advice, ect...


    Just act casual in front of that guy...but if he intimidates you there may be a reason, intuition is a powerful thing.
    im best answer
    to bond with ppl quicker you should try finding thing that you have in common with them and baically just be yourself. you know like be funny, random, fun, crazy haha those kind of things so that way the ppl you wanna bond with will want to hang out with you just to have a good time. Or, start hanging out with the lik at the mall or movies, or watever.








    uummm...... for the second ?........ um, how about try to talk to the guy a lil more so that way when you two have to learn the routine together, you can have a fun time doin it.^^

    I think i'm falling for my best friend, I need advice, please.?

    There's this guy and he's like one of my best friends. Last year we both liked each other but neither of us ever told each other. We eventually found out over summer. We were going to get together but he went on a vacation and met a girl. They both fell for each other. I eventually moved on. We still are very good friends, he's like one of my best friends. Well, I'm starting to think I like him again, and he thinks I'm pretty and attractive still (I mean he's told me that) but he's still with that girl he met. I don't know what to do. Should I tell him and just get everything out there? Please, I need some help. Desperately.I think i'm falling for my best friend, I need advice, please.?
    The best thing for you to do is to just wait until him and his gf break up then tell him because if you do it while he still has a gf then that will make it even more awkward. Just wait and see if they break up then go tell him.I think i'm falling for my best friend, I need advice, please.?
    just tell him
    For now, respect his relationship with this girl. If they are having a long distance relationship, then you may want to tell him that you like him, but be aware that it could lose your friendship. But, life's all about taking risks.

    I'm 5ft9 and 135 lbs. Want to weigh 110 lbs. Diet/exercise advice? 10 points for best answer!?

    Well for your diet, in order to reduce your body fat you need to first reduce your calorie intake. Your goal will be to consume less calories, in the form of food and drink, than your body actually requires, thus, creating a calorie deficit. One pound of fat is the equivalent of 3,500 calories. If you split this down over the week that鈥檚 500 calories per day you need to be eating less of. Achieve this and you will loose one pound of fat per week.





    To loose more than one pound of fat per week, you can loose even more body fat by engaging in exercise. Examples include cardio such as running, biking, swimming, rowing, etc. You can also engage in resistance training which will help make the muscles stronger and firmer, and will also burn additional calories. Remember, the more lean muscle tissue you have on your body, the more calories you will burn on a daily basis, even at rest.





    Through a combination of diet and exercise you could expect to loose around 1-2 pounds per week. This will allow you to reach your goal of 110 lbs in around 8 weeks based on losing 2 pounds per week.





    Good luck





    Ben :)I'm 5ft9 and 135 lbs. Want to weigh 110 lbs. Diet/exercise advice? 10 points for best answer!?
    You are on the low end of a healthy weight for your height.


    There is no healthy way to lose that much weight when your that tall! Just eat lots of fruits and veggies and continue exercise. You can't possibly be chunky with those numbersI'm 5ft9 and 135 lbs. Want to weigh 110 lbs. Diet/exercise advice? 10 points for best answer!?
    that is not healthy for your height.
    Diet and exercise advice: Don't drop to 110 pounds...

    What's wrong with me and my best friend?(I need advice)?

    we're both sixteen. both girls. and we're cousins. people say we look almost identical. but her sister is her real twin and looks nothing like her.





    there is so much that makes me hate her but i've pushed all the stupid stuff to the side. now it just bothers me how i think i'm jealous of her because she is suddenly so stunning and outgoing.





    3 years ago she moved two hours away and by us going to a concert together she met new people and back then she used to always copy me and try to be friends with my friends.





    she just seems so much better because she has perfect teeth, skin, shiny hair and shes so cute and outgoing all the time and she can get all the things she wants because her moms admirer(yes..weird) buys them anything they want. while my mom doesnt have enough money to even get regular doctor checkups.





    but what makes me hate her most of all is she doesnt treat me how i treat her. she makes be feel so self concious when im around her and i can tell im not as happy or fun with her as when im with my other friends. and everytime i tell her something thats bothering me shes like: yeah thats stupid but whatever. and starts talking about herself. she never listens. she has such a bitchy attitude i've found out from her sister. all she does is smoke weed and get drunk and party and doesnt have much self respect.(btw her mom knows she smokes and drinks and doesnt care) she doesnt really know what she wants to be after high school which she is failing all her classes as a sophomore. and i am the same age as her and i dont smoke drink party and im attending cosmetology school while in high school(although i might not get enough credits to grad, but i still will be a licensed cosmetologist)





    on the subject of boys yeah she goes through them stupidly (most of them were from where i live of course) but theres this one that lives here and she called him a best friend becasue they tell each other everything and he goes through a lot of girls(he used to like me a couple times and on and off talking like friends) but he is genuinely a nice guy just looking for someone and he finds her perfect because he doesnt see any of the negative things about her





    i don't know what to do its been like this for a long time and i've tried everything from treating her how she treats me(didnt work for long. i couldnt do it) i've told her how i felt about things like how she treats me. and now i just don't talk to her unless i really want to tell her something or she talks to me. because i'm sick of telling her things and she just doesnt listen or blows me off. and she wont tell me a thing about whats shes up to and usually hides things bracause she thinks ill be disapointed in her but now she seems like she could care less.





    please give real advice. sorry its so long. and thanks.What's wrong with me and my best friend?(I need advice)?
    I am a guy but i really think you should talk to her and tell her how u feel (:What's wrong with me and my best friend?(I need advice)?
    Just ditch her, you don't need a friend like that, especially one that's going down the path that she's going down.
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  • Nokia n79 or n96...if compared which is best...?i need some advice?

    im gonna get a new cell phone soon and i donnu which to choose...im more of a compact phone u know no slides or flips....i got the n73 atm...





    i was cheking out a few stuff and i found the n96 it was ok but i dont need soooo much memory space and i hate slides and crap....i mean i got my ipod for music i just use a cell for calling,msging,pictures,vids,wi-fi(if possible i never had a phone with it) and anythin else but not music... so a n79 should do good right?or cell phone like it aint that good?they got the same camera no?battery life? ect





    so anyway i was wondering if u had to compare them wat they have diferent and the same if possible and if u were me which would u choose...(i like normal phones no flips,slides ect like a candy bar u now like the n73 which i got atm BUT if i have to buy a phone i wanna buy it good so i wanna now the drawbacks of each and pros if possible and if thre compared)Nokia n79 or n96...if compared which is best...?i need some advice?
    I like the Nokia N96 by a far shot

    Best friend thats a boy advice....please..i'm so confused..

    okay so,


    i have a best friend.. it's a boy, and i'm a girl..


    we are ssooo close kay?


    so like every once in a while he will act like he likes me and be like


    ';(my name) i love you...i want to be with you..';


    and all i do it start laughing because you know.. he is my bff come on he's my bro.


    but i come to realize it .. he might actually like me.. and i have no clue i feel like i have feelings for him but its so confusing because i dont know if he means it or not..


    like we are soooo close.. its like almost were dating but like we laugh about it but i know we just turn around and just WISH it was it..


    but idk.. i'm kinda confused though.. what should i do about this..?


    really truly honestly..


    opinion?


    it shoulds really dumb.. but it is just soooo hard to explain this situation.Best friend thats a boy advice....please..i'm so confused..
    i think you should just go for it and see what happens. Good Luck.


    answer mine?


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>

    My boyfriend is not too fond of my best guy friend anymore..advice please?

    Ok.so heres the deal..





    I have been real good friends with my guy friend since i was 15.Im 20 right now.turning 21 soon. Anyway, we really consider each other best pals.He's the only guy friend that I can trust. Now, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year and 4 months. I love him so much. hes my everything.I am soo happy with him.


    So, my boyfriend brought up to me that while he was a junior he actually went on a date with my best guy friends girlfriend of 2 years. i thought it was funny. I didnt really mind since it happened like 4 years ago. My boyfriend told me that she would be the one that would send her friends over to tell him that she wanted to talk to him.. but my boyfriend told me that he wasn't feeling her and there was no connection. I mean shes a real quiet girl. So,i brought it up to my best guy friend, whom I thought wasnt gonna really care since It happened a while backk. I mean i didnt care. After I told him about that, it kinda seemed to bother him and he asked his g.f about it just to see if it was true. So what she did is that she totally flipped the script and made it seem like my boyfriend was the one that was trying to get at her. Which is not true because my boyfriend is a real honest guy.Trust me. So, i was a little shocked that my best guy friend actually got offended. and he started making jokes saying that, supposedly his girlfriend had said that she wasnt feeling my boyfriend back then because he wasnt cute enough for her!! that ticked me when he threw that in there. That was totally uncalled for..I mean so, i got a little offensive and said ,''well maybe my boyfriend isn't the hottest guy in the world, but he has a great personality, something your girlfriend should try to develop!!' So then my best guy friend started making jokes about my b.f..So i got a little mad. and was like hey well Ill call you later and I know that he was already a little mad too. So i mentioned what had happened to my boyfriend and was saying that why was my best guy friend saying **** like that if he didnt even know him that well ( which is true) you just dont make fun of a person you really dont know well. anyway, now my b.f isn't too fond of my best guy friend. Kinda sucks couse now there will be no double dating lo JK. but it sucks couse you know he's still my best guy friend. but I obviously love my boyfriend.I just didnt like the fact that my best guy friend said all those things.


    what should I do?My boyfriend is not too fond of my best guy friend anymore..advice please?
    tell your guy friend how you feel.


    and tell him that if he keeps on acting this way and doesn't stop there's no way you can remain friends ! |STAND UP FO YA MAAN|


    lol:p


    and then tell your boyfriend what you told him so he feels like you care and aren't just nigelecting what happened.My boyfriend is not too fond of my best guy friend anymore..advice please?
    if they don't have enough respect for you to cause so much drama over something so incredibly petty, i suggest you reconsider your relationship with the two of them and find better people.
    You got yourself in the middle of a male ego situation. Guys don't like other guys out doing them. Just tell them both that you are sorry you brought it up.
    That's way too complicated... I guess just give things time, and if you and your boyfriend are meant to be it will all work itself, and friends should be there till the end... time will only tell with this one.
    Whoa you need to chill. You both got defensive of your own bf/gf. Just make amends and forget.
    This is all just ego driven grade 2 bullshit. If the kids can't get along in the sandbox, maybe not because they want to but at least for your sake then you are wasting your time with both of them. Go do something fun and exciting so that you have something better to worry yourself about other than childish drama.
    with out reading your explination the golden rule is friends will always be there so unless you are planning to marry this guy tell him to deal with it.

    I am a miserable college student. 10 pts best answer for good advice?

    i am a first year sophomore at the UMD and i am a cellular biology and molecular genetics major.. i am doing ok right now but i find myself MISERABLE over my chemistry classes. they are hard work. i can handle hard work if i had SOMETHING TO RELATE TO IN THE BOOK. i end up googling or wiki-how-ing all my work because they give an example in the book and something NOT EVEN IN THE SUBJECT on the homework and i am miserable MISERABLE and i hate it. i thought hard work, HONEST hard work would get me through this but im finding myself suicidal... if i have to keep doing this just to pass by the skin of my teeth, i know i will fail the class sooner or later. is this weird? am i alone???? i googled this and aparently i am alone. i am suicidal because this is my major, its what i want to do, i am under a lot of pressure.. and i am reaching my breaking point very very quick. someone give me advice. is this how it is in other colleges or does a good education system exist?? (PS i am doing great in my other classes where the work is difficult and IN THE BOOK)I am a miserable college student. 10 pts best answer for good advice?
    Heyy I'm a bio major and it involves a fair bit of chemistry. I'm just barely passing for about the same reasons and I spend hours just trying to get my homework done. It's nuts. The prof expects us to teach ourselves the chapters and then arrive to class as experts so he can just do examples. His lectures jump around the chapters, which drives me nuts. They are in order for a reason!!!!!!! So for the first test it was on selected stuff from chapters 1-3, 6, and 8. the second one was those chapters plus 5, 9, and 10. It drives me insane, I hate it.





    See, you're not totally alone.





    ps. what i found to really help me was that my chem lab prof was the same prof as my chem lecture, so at the end of chem lab, i would just have him explain some stuff for me one-on-one that i didn't understand. i say just keep trying your hardest, and maybe research your profs on ratemyprofessor.com before you schedule classes (if you can choose them.. i can't even get into the classes i NEED lol)I am a miserable college student. 10 pts best answer for good advice?
    It might not be the right thing for you if you're struggling. Or it could be that you have a bad teacher/book? My chemistry teacher said he had a lousy teacher/book and that he got a C in his class. Some teachers are just bad.
    I also find chem difficult, and sometimes the pressure of schoolwork is overwhelming. You should go in and talk to your teacher about getting help, especially if you feel that your chem book is not helpful. or seek help from other students in the class. Also if you feel so miserable and alone you should get help from a counselor, but you are certainly not alone. Dont stress out, it'l work out. Seriously, go and talk to your teacher, he should help.


    hope this helped, hang in there

    PLEASE HELP guy trouble!!! Please answer, 10 pts best!! I really need advice!!!?

    This question is different than my other one!!!!! Please read/help/advise!!!!!!


    =[








    Okay..so i like this guy, lets call him Joe again, and i think he likes me back maybe cuz when he texts me or we talk on facebook he always uses ';hahas'; and smiley faces and capital letters when hes like ';HII!!!'; or something and hes so cute and perfect and so nice and everything, and we hang out during studyhall and wander the halls and hes so sweet and flirts with me so much and always asks me who i like and asks me to make a nickname for him and stuff.





    BUT, i found out that he does this is exact same flirty thing with my friend. He also talks to a bunch of my friends in school and on facebook all the time and flirts with eveeerryone apparently, thats just his personality i think.





    I don't know if hes naturally just really flirty and doesnt know it or if he does this with a bunch of girls just to hook up with them or something or just to play us.


    Idk! but hes so sweet and always talks to me and says hi and stuff and today in studyhall we sat in the hall longer cuz he said he didnt want to go back, and he asked me who i liked again, like begging to know, but he does that with lots of people..








    DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT!?!?!? i have no idea!!! i was wondering -- should i ask him on AIM or facebook..like whats his deal? Like why hes so flirty and makes me think he likes me?


    I just dont want to get my hopes up if he doesnt.


    please help me!!


    thannkx!PLEASE HELP guy trouble!!! Please answer, 10 pts best!! I really need advice!!!?
    Unfortunately, you're probably correct. It's just his personality. From what you've said he just seems like he's an outgoing, flirty person. That doesn't make him a bad person. You just have to be aware, so that you know what to disregard.





    If he likes you, he will tell you. Until then, enjoy flirting with him and know that you have a friend.

    Stuck in the middle of my 2 best friends fight? NEED ADVICE!?

    Okay, so On Halloween, my friends Bella and Anna and I were going to go trick or treating. she was inviting these 2 guys that had made me cry before, and i didn't want it to ruin my night, so Bella Decided to come with me trick or treating, and let Anna go with her friend Via and those 2 guys. So we ran into them, because we were going trick or treating in the same neighborhood, and the 2 guys threw water on Bella, for NO reason!! So, we were all kind of mad, but Anna decided she was going to be mad at Bella and not me. I was wondering why she was mad at bella, when the fault was more mine then hers. I was glad to be out of that fight though. so Bella ASKED me to stand up for her, and i didn't think it was right for her to ask me. i DID in the end stand up for her when they would say mean things or whatever, but i wasn't going to throw myself in the fight. Im so confused, who is right and who is wrong??Stuck in the middle of my 2 best friends fight? NEED ADVICE!?
    you can either choose a side and possibly lose a friend or say from now on u r not sidin wit anyone because you don't want to lose either one of them and let them battle it out. Let them vent to you if they need to but don't make remarks back. Tell them that you don't feel its fair for them to put you in the middle fo this and that you are going to be friends with the both of them and they have, to deal with it. You aren't telling them they have to be friends but you are not going to lose them as your friends even though they seem to be fine losing each other. SO the best thing to do would be to say leave me out of this!Stuck in the middle of my 2 best friends fight? NEED ADVICE!?
    ok this is bella


    kat you left out the part where I stood up for you


    the only reason im in this fight is because i stood up for you!


    and its not fair


    your off the hook and you wont help me


    but i help you?


    true frendship is different
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  • I love my boyfriend but I like his best friend. I need advice.?

    I know it seems wrong. But i really need advice. My boyfriends name is Zack. His best friend is Daniel. I lost my virginity to Zack about a month ago. Im sixteen, Zack is seventeen and Daniel is sixteen. When I first moved to this town I met Zack and he asked me out and I said yes. We broke up two weeks later %26amp; he cheated on me in that period of time. (but I didnt know that until a very long time afterward.) We were kind of friends with benefits for a long time. (let me remind you that I was a virgin at this time.) He had a g/f and I knew it and I still stayed the night at his house and called him and kissed him. I didnt know his g/f and she had always been a ***** to me but I didnt care that he was cheating on her with me. I felt I meant more to him than she did. Which is stupid. Well I started getting into Daniel. %26amp; so me and Daniel were together but not. Like we acted like a couple but he told me he didnt want to date me for a lond time. Mainly because of me and Zacks history. Well me and Zack and Daniel and Zacks g/f started hanging out. Which was weird at first but Zacks g/f got over the fact that he cheated on her with me so many times. Anyways Zack goes to rehab and me and Daniel just kind of stop talking and me and Zacks g/f start being best friends. Well while Zack was in rehab, Zacks g/f broke up with him and found someone else. Me and Daniel fell apart and me and Zack got together. Me and Zacks ex g/f %26amp; Zacks ex g/fs b/f are best friends. Zack doesnt like his ex's b/f and he doesnt like Zack.





    Well as I told you I lost my virginity to Zack about a month ago. Daniel found another g/f %26amp; it messes with my head knowing he kisses her and stuff. I dont know. Zack knows I like Daniel %26amp; it bothers him. Daniel has dont no wrong to me and Zack has ****** me over many times. What do I do? I am so in love with Zack but I like Daniel so much and me liking Daniel brings tension to me and Zacks relationship. I dont know what to do. Advice pleaseI love my boyfriend but I like his best friend. I need advice.?
    Whoa what a mess lol


    alright i understand the bond a girl gets with the guys who has taken her virginity, but it sounds like this Zach character truly doesn't deserve you. Someone who cheats his girlfriend is scum. Sorry but when you go into a relationship you remain faithful to that person no matter what. Daniel seems to be a decent dude, but the fact that he has a girlfriend of his own doesn't help, and breaking people up for your own needs is wrong. There are more guys out there besides these two guys. You seem like a good girl whom another guy would be lucky to have. Play the field, but if you find yourself wanting either one of these two guys then this is what i advise.


    If it's Zach lay down the rules. He should NOT be cheating, and you need to let him know that or else you walk.


    If it's Daniel let him know how you feel, and if he cares for you enough he will come around.





    But remember there are many more guys out there who will remain faithful and keep you drama free...for the most part.





    Good Luck.I love my boyfriend but I like his best friend. I need advice.?
    what a mess, if i was you i would dump them both


    and get a new guy
    Well it isn't very fair for you to go whoring around and messing up Zack and Daniel's relationship. You need to either choose one or dump them both because it sounds like your slutty, raging hormones are tearing apart a relationship.