Boyfriend seems to be mutually in Love with his best friend(a girl), Advice needed:?

My boyfriend, who I really like by the way, has a best friend he's known since highschool.





They are very close and are constantly together, and he tells her everything. I've been seeing this guy about 4 months, anywho...


I went out drinking with them a few night ago, and there is definantly some chemistry goin on, and they were all over eachother. She's perfect for him actually, they seem to get along better.


I'm not that upset, cuz they seem to be perfect for eachother,(actually I am pretty pissed off, I have fantacies about beating him up) but he says he still wants to see me cuz she has a boyfriend already, and he's good friends with him aswell. They are like this little circle of friend that have known eachother since highschool.





She was also pretty catty with me, and does have strong feelings for him you could see it. He disrespected me aswell, by being all over her.


I don't know why he decides NOW , being with me to all this sudden start falling for her.





I'm gonna dump, although I really do like him





Are Y'all with me on this?Boyfriend seems to be mutually in Love with his best friend(a girl), Advice needed:?
No. Don't dump him.





These are just petty issues. If you want him and want to continue with him, talk about it.

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Advice. what should i do if my best friend is cutting her self?

should i get her help or should i stay out of it?? please helpAdvice. what should i do if my best friend is cutting her self?
I am no psychologist, but - my best friend's girlfriend, who was also my friend (only) used to do that. In her case, she was deep-down ';punishing herself.'; Also - in her case (not necessarily your friend's case!) - this girl had been approached in the wrong way by her grandfather when she was very young, so, again - in her case - this may have been one reason why she felt ';worthless'; and that she deserved some form of ';punishment.'; In your fiend's case, she, too, must be made aware of the fact that she is in no way ';worthless,'; and that she deserves no form of ';punishment'; whatsoever! If she cannot be made to realize this, then my advice would be for someone to get her to professional help! Cutting one's self is not normal, and it should not be ignored !!Advice. what should i do if my best friend is cutting her self?
Idk I'd stay outta it and tell her what an idiot she is but thats just me
get her some bandages
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You are required by law to help and Do first aid get a banad and call 911.
take the knife and hide it.
Tell her to knock it the f*ck off! Tell her you don't like that she does that.
Yes get her help, hopefully her parents if they are sane will have her see a doctor. She's going to keep doing it till someone helps her and could wind up with hideous scars for the rest of her life.
get her some salt and rubbing alcohol





No, tell her parents if you are that concerned. She may hate you but you will be doing the right thing
First off know your friend needs you more (in it) than (staying out of it) because your friend all ready feels out of it in life. Know that there were voices in my past that told me that I had nothing to offer!, I was nothing!, God and Jesus Didn't value me and maybe you should think about what life would be like if you weren't in it because it would be better for everyone!, because this world would be better without you!....I tell you sister! If these are the voices your best friend hears!? Ignore these kind of voices, this second! because this is the deceiver Satan and his legion of evil spirits, who is the father of all lies! I don't know what the voices in her mind are holding against her? Maybe she trying to end the pain from all the lies in her mind by trying to cut herself! Hoping that in cutting herself her pain will stop!? I would encourage your best friend that this is not the answer to her life! DON'T LET HER DARE TRY TO TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT! The Fact is you and her are valued, your life does have a purpose and you and her are very much loved! I too dealt with depression and the one thing that really turned my life around was: 1. Knowing that God and Jesus Loved me and I was valued! 2. Knowing I had people on my side at church, in my social life and in my family that cared about me! and 3. I had to get myself out of the atmosphere that I was in! If all you do is stay in the darkness thinking about how it is never going to get better and think why life is not worth living. But, if you build a personal relationship again with other people and most importantly a relationship with God! Then you will see yourself back with a renewed joy! I would not be telling you this if I had not experienced what your best friend is feeling for myself! Know God loves her, and He wants to come into her life and give her a joy and peace that she could never experience in any other way. Jesus said, ';Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you'; John 14:27. She needs to know: %26gt;%26gt;God created her, and God loves Her!. His only Son, Jesus Christ, loves Her so much that he gave His life on the cross so she could be saved and break free from in perfectness, sin and this depression to become a child of God. She needs to give Jesus all your worries and burdens. When you accept Jesus Christ into your life, something wonderful and supernatural happens. God Himself comes to dwell within you! You become part of His family, and you can know the joy of His presence every day. Go and Pray for your best friend but before you do that ask her to tell you what all the voices she hears in her mind are saying and each time she tells you something negative the voices are saying tell her that the voices she hears are lying! Immediately,Renounce the lie in Jesus Name and tell her that God and Jesus Loves her and tell her to tell the voices in her mind to GO IN JESUS NAME! Right now, I encourage you to invite Jesus into your heart. I don't know what you believe or if you know God or Jesus but I would encourage you to start for your best friend's sake! I will be praying for you and your best friend because I was too once where your best friend is right now and the only way am still alive is because my faith in Jesus saved me and he showed me the better life I could be living if only I put my faith and trust in Him. I encourage you to read a bible right now and then read it to your best friend. Start with the gospel of John! There you will find a story of a man named John the Baptist that paved the way for another man named Jesus that loves you and will bring your best friend guidance and hope to her life, if you and your best friend only look to him and follow him for your life's answers instead of herself! I can't stress enough how I know what your best friend is going though right now and she really needs a change of atmosphere in her life, get her out of the darkness and try to get her to meet new people! A lot of Church's have small groups, special support groups,bible study and some even have single groups. So, I would encourage you and your best friend to do that because it wasn't till I started putting Jesus first before myself that my life started to get better, I had a whole new image of myself and I started to see how much I was really loved and valued in God's eyes. You and your best friend are so loved! You and your best friend have so much to offer! I leave you with a passage from the bible that started to pull me out of the darkness and into the light: Tell this one to your best friend for starters: Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make all your paths straight. Prov. 3:5-6. Go to Jesus in prayer and then go to your best friend and pray for her this way! Ask Jesus to lead your heart so you may trust him that everything will be all right and the next step you take will be right in line with what he wants for you in life, and what life is suppose to be like in serving him! and don't forget to renounce all the lies from Satan. In Jesus Name Amen
tell her parents or guardian. I know it makes you feel like a tattle tale but you are doing it because you care about her. she needs help and you can not help her.
I THINK IF YOU'RE A TRUE FRIEND YOU WOULD TELL SOMEONE TALK TO SOMEONE WHO CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT OTHERWISE YOU WILL FEEL GUILTY IF SOMETHING HAPPENS TO HER AND YOU KNEW ABOUT IT THIS WHOLE TIME :)
Get her help!!


Please talk to her parents or another adult in her family that you trust. If that is not possible, talk to your own parent or older adult.


If you have a school counselor, you may want to talk to her/him.





A piece of advice -your friend will probably be upset w/you for revealing her secret %26amp; your friendship might be tested. But keep in mind that this is going to help her and one day she will be very grateful to you for it.
You should definitely tell someone. Maybe a parent or school counselor that you trust.





Cutting is a serious situation and it's not something you or your friend can handle by themselves. As her friend you have to step up and help her, because she can't make or do that by herself.





Here is a good site for some extra information:


http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind鈥?/a>





I wish you and your friend the best of luck!
If you go to school you could talk to your consular, he or she would know what to do.You should say something because if she ever did anything too serous you will probably blame yourself for not saying anything. Oh and one more thing....dont listen to that jesus freak, if you do you will problably end up cutting yourself.
i had the same problem wit a friend of mine but she had 2 go to a medical hospital cuz she had mental problems but anyways get her in trouble take the thing away from her tell sum1 take her to a phycaristist.....u no talk 2 her.....or maybe she's emo lol
If your her best friend what do you think you should do? I would get help. What if your best friend kills her self then what would you do?


All i'm saying is if your her best friend then you should help her.
Tell her parents or someone else with some sort of influence over her. Someone I knew was a cutter that no one knew about. She got blood poisoning and was hospitalized for nearly a month.
Advise her to address the source of her problems, starting with seeing her doctor. Tell her to put a rubber band around her wrist, extend and release, when she feels the need to cut, but only for a few minutes, max., or draw a red line across her wrist. Write down the following, and give her a copy: Phone 1800 dont cut http://www.focusas.com (.com/selfinjury.html) %26amp; http://www.palacenet/~llama/psych/ (psych/injury.html) %26amp; www.mirror-mirror.org Join at www.myspace.com [free]. Click on ';groups'; in an upper toolbar, select ';other'; and search for a suitable one that you can show her, or she can pick one, maybe changing later, possibly exchanging IM, email addresses, or phone numbers (caution advised). Also Yahoo; groups %26amp; Google; groups are options.
Help her stop hating herself and wanting to do self-harm.
There is very little you can do. There are many reasons a person would choose to cut. If she is not an adult, I agree that you should talk to her parents or your school counselor.





I am a ';cutter'; though I haven't in quite some time. In order for me to get to a space where I don't feel I need to do that, I needed help, though I resisted it a lot at first. She needs to talk to a professional counselor.





I've known people who like me said it wasn't attempting suicide as that wasn't the goal of their cutting. Unfortunately, even without intent, many cut too deep just that one time and die.





It does NOT get better. I believe it to be similar to addiction. I believe every cut gets worse, and while it can VERY temporarily relieve pressure, it will get worse and worse until she gets help. I could not stop while I was actively gutting.





If your friend has confided in you about this, she has taken a step. She is reaching out to you, not matter how ';tough'; she might be and I don't think you should ';stay out of it';.





Again, there are going to be a LOT of emotions around this. She may be very angry with you should you choose to tell someone.





Your job though in life is to take care of you first or you are no help to others. Consider how it would feel if you do nothing and the worst happens.
Help her. That is what friends do, they help each other. Get her help as soon as possible.
Just b a friend 2 her right now.Yur friend probly feels so alone.

What is it like comingout gay, Cause my best m8 just has and i need some advice?

As i need someone to give me advice, i need someone who has come out gay or someone who has a m8 or family member who hasWhat is it like comingout gay, Cause my best m8 just has and i need some advice?
My mate came out to people at school in Y11. People already suspected but he still got alot of sh** from the closeminded insecure idiots. It's a difficult thing to do and he still hasn't told his mom. Just be the same as normal around your mate and help him to ignore the ';hilarious'; and very unoriginal jokes. He'll probably be glad that your a real mate xxWhat is it like comingout gay, Cause my best m8 just has and i need some advice?
what do u need advice for, just because he's finally come out, doesnt mean he's a different person, i have gay mates, and i still rip on them as much as before i knew, if he's just come out, you stayin the same will help him alot,, does that help?
Be there for your mate... Don't treat him any differently... He is the same person...





He'll probably pull women better than you ever could... ;)
There is nothing wrong with it, everybody these days is okay about it and it seems to be in fashion. The worst bit is telling everyone but im telling you now you soon find out your real friends are and they are definately worth keeping like yourself who stick by you. Family are the worst but then it makes u a stronger person for being honest with yourself.
Scarey and verymuch dependant on the reactions of friends and family...





Make it good, show you still friends and if a girl go out guy spotting with him.





If a guy let him no its cool just no sneaky peaks 9and say that in a fun jokey way). He will be worried you don't want to be his mate.








Also note... gays get lots of girl mates.





2 girls can really try to convert gays





3 girls dont mind changing clothes in front of guys they are convinced are gay...





Ie start plotting ways he can help you pull women so can be lads that way.








And if in the UK tell him to check out a nightclub called Starkers night if in London and over 18.





Nudist club mainly full of gays...








Just imagine it it was full of women.

Need some advice on girls. 10 pts best answer?

Im 18 and haven't had a gf before probably because of my shyness. Ive been looking for a gf for awhile i dont know if i should just let it come to me or be proactive. Should i go to a party going on next week and try there? Also what could a guy do to make himself more appealing to a girl. Thanks.Need some advice on girls. 10 pts best answer?
well first of all, just be yourself! you shouldn't have to change for anybody, because one day i bet you'll find some chick that likes you the way you are. and girls like romantic sweet guys, the ones that kiss slowly and passionately, not all dirty with there tongue down her throat. and try to let them come to you, but if after a long while nothing s happening, then you go for it and try to flirt with somebody. and then just remember to be yourself =] goood luck , i hope things workout for you at the party and in future =]Need some advice on girls. 10 pts best answer?
Are you looking for a serious relationship or a casual one? A girl you meet at a party may not be looking for a serious relationship. I advise looking elsewhere depending on your interests.





Go up to girls and introduce yourself; strike up a conversation. She'll most likely be flattered that you came up and talked to her over anyone else. If that doesn't go well go talk to someone else. If nothing else you'll make a few new friends that may introduce you to their female friends and so on.
shyness in a guy is cute!! i think u should definently go to that party!! dont be shy! Be proactive and just spark a conversation with a girl! and i can defiently tell u something that makes me like a guy when a guy says im beautiful and not sexy or hot! and to be more appealing! be yourself dont try to act like you are something you are not or try to act different just to impress that is a big turn off!!!
Okay dude...I really don't want to get into a lengthy answer here because there's too much to cover. As well, I don't want to sound like an advertisement either because I've seen those in here too. But what I strongly suggest is doing what I did to learn how to attract women. There's two websites I've noted below. Check those out and get on their email lists. Read the emails they send you. It'll not make sense at first and seem rather strange...and possibly fake...but read them and try some of the tactics they talk about. It took me a few years, but after a while those tactics started working. This is why I don't want to get into a lengthy answer about how to get a girlfriend. Good luck.
aw....you sound sweet. acting confident is a key factor in getting girls to notice you....but dont be obnoxious or act like a player. this should be obvious..but no cheezy pick up lines!!! also look nice.... maube leave your hair natural or gel it depending on what looks handsome on you....also wear a dark wash of jeans....normal jeans, not baggy or skinny. then wear a nice shirt...maybe a dark shirt with silver/white vetical stripes that are really thin. wear a white under shirt and leave the striped shirt on top open. then more or your personality...tell a girl who seems like she want to talk to you some of your hobbies(be very casual and decent)...wear really nice perfume(sorry dont know how to spell the guy version of the stuff!!)...it would also be attractive to get the girl to laugh. no dirty, cheezy, or stupid jokes!!! maybe if u do something stupid..laugh it off and she would laugh along!!! GOODLUCK!!!!!!!
Parties are good because they are generally much more casual and fun oriented than other occasions. Be outgoing-- however difficult it may be. Pick out a girl you think is charming, pretty, whatever and go for it. Whether she ignores you or things work out, it will be a good experience to build your confidence.
go to the party and make an effort to talk to some girls and make sure while your at the party your outgoing. girls really like that in a guy...approach the girls or you'll never get anywhere ;)
go to the party hang out with some chicks and text them a few days later if you know them well enough so its not weird or call if you want
Well, you must have a balance of both. You need to be proactive, yet you also need to let your feelings find you, and not force them. You don't go looking for a girlfriend, but what happens is you find yourself liking someone because you just like them, and not because you want a girlfriend and are looking for one. Does that make sense? You have to let it find you.





Yes, I suggest you go to the party. That is the kind of pro-activeness you need. You need to be proactive in a sense that you are giving your self chances to meet people, you need to go out and be social. That is up to you. You can flirt and have fun, definitely, but don't be looking for the perfect girlfriend. That is where the pro-activeness stops, because liking someone is a feeling that finds you, not one you make up for yourself. You go out with a girl because you like her genuinely, and not just because you want a girlfriend. This is normally something I tell 8th grade boys, but it is something all people need to grasp. Is it the idea of having a gf that you like? Or is it the actual girl you have feelings for? Think about that before starting anything.





Your first girlfriend should also be special. You owe that to yourself and the girl. Remember that also.





And what can you do to be more appealing? Well, of course the superficial stuff is what girls see first. Take care of your appearance, but don't become ';pretty.'; That's her job! Also, confidence is key! And knowing what you want...with her and now in life (at least where you see yourself going within the next year or so), since you are legally an adult. Maturity and respect also go along way, but don't be afraid to be yourself and have fun. Every girl is different, so I would say your best bet is to just be yourself so you can attract someone who likes you for you.





Good luck and don't beat yourself up about this. 18 is still young.

Which is the best job and why? please help need advice?

lawyer or vet.


why is it the best and why it is not.


thanks just need some opinions


kaleyWhich is the best job and why? please help need advice?
If you're talking in terms of which you would be best training for then it is a matter of personal opinion. Both are demanding professions and relatively well paid ones too so you need to decide what sort of work you'd be happier doing.





If you are hopelessly torn between the two options then you might like to try and arrange work experience at a lawyers' office and a veterinary practice for a week or two to give you a better idea of what you can expect from each career.Which is the best job and why? please help need advice?
You have to ask yourself what you really want, working as a vet would mean being around animals and having to go out on site sometimes whereas as a lawyer you're likely to be in an office or court a lot of the time. Think about what your strengths are and where you want to work and that should help you make up your mind.
vet


too many lawyers and everyone hates them
That depends on what you are looking for, and what you enjoy most. Working with animals and trying to free animal.
Lawyer for the money and the lying. Vet for the fuzzy feelings
vet -at least the clients ar guaranteed to be honest





I could never defend someone charged with murder, esp. if I thought he/she was guilty.
That question is totally opinion based.


Lawyers have to go through 4 years of regular college and then a crazy LSAT exam which makes no sense. After they sit 3 years in law school, they sit at home looking for work and wonder why they cant find a job even though they graduated with a 3.8 GPA. There is too much competition when it comes to lawyers, but if you are good at it, you can get paid very well. If you can argue well, it is also a great hobby.





Vet on the other hand is more of a less stressful and less competitive market.





Maybe combining the two and becoming a lawyer that defends animals is your gig!
They are both great service professions that take several more years of college and have a different type of liability strapped to them. It is really what yor heart decides to do. Lawyers can make good money and pick who they want to represent if they have their own firm. Vets get to be around animals all day long which is cool if you like animals. I dont know the hours fr vets though but sure there is more liability than lawyers in having to take care of the animals people leave with you.

Ugghh need advice from girls 10 pointss best answer?

okay i liked this girl for a few months and she knows we been friends for awhile though, she has a boy shes getting with not a b/f yet, hes comming with her to my party 2morrow i asked on aim to see his myspace, she wouldnt show me it she wouldnt send me the link, so i asked why and she said theres something on there you would give me crap about, (shes talked about me on her friends myspace before) i dont have a myspace, but she said it's not about me, im thinking its pictures of them together maybe something innapropriate idk shes 16 this kids 15, but i wanted to ask what it maybe, whats your guess, now shes saying ';it's nothing'; i said how is it nothing? whats the problem then? she said';there is none'; i said can i see it? she says ';no'; i sed why if theres no problem and she keeps playing games lol so help me out what is she hiding on her boy toys myspace? lolUgghh need advice from girls 10 pointss best answer?
ok im a guy but i can answer this for you man just play it cool and dont act suspecious i know you like her just wait until her and her bf break up but wait for a few days after she breaks up not exactly after or sheil get annoyed with all the guys asking so a few days after they break upUgghh need advice from girls 10 pointss best answer?
omg i takled to a seanathan on the phone how funny...
prob either pics that would a)embarrass her, b) r inappropriate,


or she wrote something that she wouldnt want u to see

Advice please on what they consider to be the best USB2 DVB-T Tuner for use with MCE?

A product that will include a full remote that will also work the MCE programmes. The tuner to be used with a PC (so size is immaterial) and I have a good Freeview reception via an external aerialAdvice please on what they consider to be the best USB2 DVB-T Tuner for use with MCE?
I would suggest you go for Pinnacle product, they are one of the best in this segement. They have several products which would fit your requirements.you can find more info on the following link..





http://www.pinnaclesys.com/PublicSite/uk鈥?/a>

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Got a Verizon cell phone and am not happy with it. Any advice on which phone and plan may be the best??

Am not a big phone person, so I don't use it much.Got a Verizon cell phone and am not happy with it. Any advice on which phone and plan may be the best??
http://www.tmicell.com/?aid=18314


This is the best place to get Free phones all styles and many different carriers to choose from.Good luck and I hope this helps.Got a Verizon cell phone and am not happy with it. Any advice on which phone and plan may be the best??
Verizon phones really suck. In some sense, all carriers are terrible and it is down to the best of the worst.





Since you do not use the phone much, t-mobile might be the best. It is cheapest of the bunch and have decent simple phones (Nokia) that work well.
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Which type of Birth Control is best? Does anyone have advice about transitioning birth control?

So here's whats going on...I'm on Yaz right now...with all the reports going on around...I want to change, better safe than sorry?





I need a bc that doesn't make me bloat (Yaz made me bloat a LOT), a bc with less mood swings (Yaz did that too)..





And does anyone have advice about changing birth control? Like the time period of transition? Any special vitamins to make a smooth transition?








THANKS! =)Which type of Birth Control is best? Does anyone have advice about transitioning birth control?
Nuva Ring..it's the best thing and i've tried almost everything and it's the only one that didn't have side effects.Yes, at first it is weird sticking it up there, but it becomes easy after the first time. You won't need to take any breaks from switching. Good Luck!Which type of Birth Control is best? Does anyone have advice about transitioning birth control?
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I know this isn't the best place for medical advice, but my right foot fell asleep and hasn't ';woken up';?

I had a soccer game last night at 10pm. Before the game, I had been sitting at my computer with my legs resting on the computer tower. I noticed my foot falling asleep so I changed position. I noticed after 15/20 minutes, the ';numbness'; in my right foot was still there.





I went to the soccer game and played, but it felt really weird, and kicking with my right foot I had no power.





So I thought it would fix itself, and I went to sleep that night. Woke up today and it was still there. It causes me to walk with a slight limp, and riding my bike felt VERY awkward when pushing down on the right pedal.





I have to drive home tonight and I am little worried as to what is the problem. The only thing I can think of is a blood clot - which I believe is pretty dangerous.





The student health center is closed now so I can't seek help there. I am 21 years old, male - in decent shape. I don't really work out but I get exercising on the bike. I'm 5'8 or so, about 135.


Should I talk some aspirin as a blood thinner?I know this isn't the best place for medical advice, but my right foot fell asleep and hasn't ';woken up';?
You are right on the money about the blood clot get to the ER asap as you are really lucky it has not traveled to your lungs or heart yet. It is nothing to mess with or wait till a certain clinic is open, get help now!!!

My ex and i are now best friends.. i need advice!!?

PLEASE DONT JUST SAY UR TOO YUNG TO B IN LOVE. CUZ IVE HEARD IT WAYY TOO MUCH. LOL. my ex and i were goin out for a while. but we argued a lot so we ended up breaking up. he ended up getting a girlfriend. [who is 14 years old lmao] and apparently ';they are so in love'; haa. i told her she didnt know what love is. [im 16 in case u were wondering] even tho im not sure i no wat it is either... anyways me and his girl got into an argument which left me crying.. but my ex told my best friend that his loyalty is always going to be to me.. he tells me he loves me still and that i still mean everything to him and i come first in his life.. we still talk like 3 hours each nite and tell each other everything. so now its kinda like we are best best friends.. but im still in love with the kid.. and idk if us being super super close is good or not?!? HELP PLEASE! = ]My ex and i are now best friends.. i need advice!!?
Well, if u know that u cant be with him anymore, then it's better if u guys r not that close close close. It'll just hurt ur feelings and make u hope high that someday he'll ask u again, which is 50-50. It's better if u guys r friends only. x)

I AM IN LOVE WITH MY BEST FRIEND AND NEED ADVICE!!!??? Help?

my best guy friend is probably the best friend i have ever had..


we have never fought and i have never felt like i couldnt tell him anything and he has never judged me but he has been upfront





cutting it short......


i cant help but fall in love with him


he is the most amazing guy i have ever known


most people say that the right guy is always right in front of your face and you just dont realize it......


WELL i just realized it








last year when i first finally met we started talking and liked eachother and i got grossed out by him and was very rude to him and ignored him....


well this year we finally got to highschool(i grew up a bit)


and i had a bunch of classes with him and always saw him so we got close


my new best girl friend decided to do things with him and he liked her.....


but i didnt really care cause i didnt realize any of this till now.


and we were just best friends





but recently people have been pointing it out to me that he acts like he likes me and i act the same towards him.


i was a little puzzled about it at first cause i could not believe it...


but then it hit me when i got in my first fight with my best girl friend





the only person i really wanted to be around was him....


i looked for him with tears rolling down my face and when i couldnt find him i cried harder


i sat back down and i heard my friend say his name and say that he was just the person i needed at the moment...


i tried to hide that i was crying because i didnt want him to see me like that and he sat down right next to me, pulled my head to his chest and i layed their for the rest of lunch and he rubbed my arm and told me it was all okay.....


he seems like he really cares about me....





the thing is......he has a girlfriend who i love to death.!


but i cant get past it even though i dont want to feel this way


i guess you could say his is my first love.......i have never been so sure i was in love








but i kind of have been throwing my self on himm.....i have no idea why


today we watched a movie and i fell asleep on his shoulder and he told me that he brought me his jacket because when he was heading out the door he thought about me and wondered if i was going to be cold again......





i just wanted him to kiss me right there





but he loves his girlfriend and i dont think he feels the same way...











I HAVE NO IDEA what TO DO!!!


any advice?????








and i know i shouldnt disrupt their relationship and should just let it go but I CANT!








(sorry it was a little long)I AM IN LOVE WITH MY BEST FRIEND AND NEED ADVICE!!!??? Help?
Just say to him exactly, ';listen, i don't want to make this awkward between us, but i've started to notice that i have feelings for you.';





if he feels the same way, he'll make the next move. But you have to let him hear in your voice just how much you are in love with him without actually saying it. You have to be passionate about it, yet chill. If you really like this guy, and you think he likes you, then you have to go for it, otherwise your feelings are just going to get stronger and stronger and possibly ruin your friendship because one day you're going to snap and be like ';AHHH I LIKE U!'; and he'll be frightened and not know what to do.





Kna mean?I AM IN LOVE WITH MY BEST FRIEND AND NEED ADVICE!!!??? Help?
It will be hard but tell him how you feel. Also that you know he has a girl friend but people think he likes you.
Awww. You poor thing. I wish I had a guy who liked me like that. O well. I think you should let time take its course. Don't let it go if you still love him but don't disturb there relationship.Stay close to him and things might go your way.


Good Luck I hope I helped stay strong
Don't let it go. You sooo love him and it is obvious he likes you. Tell him how much you really care about him. It's really hard to do, so maybe talk to him online and work that in. I did that a couple times, it makes no difference to them how you tell them, as long as they know. As if he has feeling for you.
omg this is nuts because, i was just in this exact same thing. only i ant you i was the girl friend. he just last week broke up with me for her. and I've been a wreck. i still love him . and if you try to tear them away from each other than your being selfish, but if you completely absolutely for sure in love than there is nothing that you can do. you have to tell him.but its weird because Rachel the girl that plays you in my life felt the exact same way and everything your saying is exactly in like what happened. she was always in love with josh the guy that plays the best friend. talk to the girl that hes dating tell her. Rachel told me and we were ok until she to my boyfriend. But now i think we are all friends. i still love him:(:(:(:(

I'm in love with my best friend and need advice.?

My best friend (a guy) and I are extremely close. I've been friends with him for years, and had a little bit of a crush on him the first time I met him (6 years ago, in 5th grade.) We had no feelings for each other since then. We talk about our current bf/gfs to each other and give each other advice on what to do, what to say, etc. And because we are so close, everyone who knows us thinks we are secretly seeing each other.





Just a months ago I started developing feelings for him. I now am very and scarily in love with him, but I don't want to mess up our friendship. I confessed this to him two weeks ago, and he told me that


it wouldn't change anything, and he's going to be there for me 100%.


I really do love him romantically, but am not sure if he likes me back. We do things ';couples'; should do (hug each other for long periods of time, jump around and listen to music on his bed, tease each other about how sexy we are, and he once even sat on me when I was laying down on his bed.) I'm not sure anymore if this is just him teasing me like you would tease your sister, or if he maybe likes me a little bit too. He said he loves me like a sister, but I sometimes notice something else in his voice when he says it.





So does he like me as more than a friend or not? And will it create problems between us in the future?I'm in love with my best friend and need advice.?
He knows how you feel already because you told him. If he didnt reciprocate your feelings at that time two weeks ago, and is still


not reciprocating your feelings now, then he is either unsure of


what to do or how he feels, or he knows how he feels already


and does not have romantic feelings for you.





That doesnt mean that there isnt a chance between the both


of you, but just because you want a relationship with him


right now doesnt mean youll be able to have it.





If he feels the same at some point he will make a move.


If I guess right he may have asked someone he knows


for advice, and as long as his friend gives him good


advice like, ';dont wait too long to make a move.'; Then..





Not all the time feelings or love are realized or felt


instantly. Sometimes love grows like it did with


you. If you really want to be with him then wait


and maybe he will grow to love you too.





Thats about the only thing you can do, unless


you make a move on him.I'm in love with my best friend and need advice.?
my best friend is also a guy. his name is sam, and sam is the one person who can make me smile no matter what. i say that this guy likes you. i know from my experience, that love IS scary. The fact that he sat on you isnt somthing that he'd do probly, if he didnt like you. Guy friends that you fall in love with are amazing, because you know allready that they'd never hurt u or abuse u, t8k advantage, or cheat. They just love you. In so many ways. Good luck, this guy sounds awesome. :)!!!!
wow it sounds to me like he really does love you,


because usually when u tell a guy friend u like him, and he doesnt like you back.... he'll act a little akward around you, and he wont hug u as much or play around with u as much, cuse hes afraid that you'll like him even more..


but if he still acts the same with you and even acts a little bit more than a friend then maybe he really does have feelings for you,(im guessing on that part, because it really depends on his personality)








he probably just dosnt know how to tell you, or he's not sure he should tell you.

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I have a crush girls your advice would probley be best?

hey um well i have a crush on a girl from my church weve known each other for 10 years and been good friends for about 5 years we are both about to turn 16 in august a couple weeks apart and i notice her glancing back at me and if i look over at her when she's glancing back she smiles and we flirt all the time does it sound like she likes me well neither one of us is in a relationship right now also i know that there isnt anyone that she likes because were are very good friends and we talk about past relationships all the time we talk alot everytime we are in the same room frankly i could talk to her for hours and not get bored well what d you guys think i should doI have a crush girls your advice would probley be best?
dude what are you waiting for ?????? that's my question to you i mean you guys will make a perfect couple and you guys will definetley have a healthy realationship since you get along soo well and the best part is she's not in a realtionship....so i say get with her.....it's better for the two of you and hint hint she's flirting with YOUI have a crush girls your advice would probley be best?
I say follow your heart and let this person know how you feel
just ask her out, you wont know if you dont go...my advice is dont pressure her into feeling something she may not, otherwise you could lose a great friendship, go easy and tell her exacly how you feel, you seem like a nice kid and i'd date you in a second
Dude, just go for it man.....what are you waiting for. Just tell her how you feel....but keep her guessing. I told this girl I thought she was smart and beautiful (and I meant it), and now she likes me....so try it!
I have been with a girl who was a long time friend. It could have been the best thing ever...but I screwed up...make the move and keep the friendship part and it will last a lifetime
ASK HER OUT!!!! DEFINATLY!!!
it sounds like she likes you..i say u go 4 it
The next time you're sitting together relaxing, jokingly drape your arm around her shoulders. If she leans into your arms, she's into you. If not, she probably sees you more like a friend.
ASK HER OUT!!!!! maybe shes wating for you to do that PS dont wait too long this guy i knew did and when he finally did it was too late dont let the same thing happen too you!!
It soudns like you like her alot, and if you ask me she might have a slight crush on you as well. I dont' know for sure since i haven't seen it. My advice is to just keep getting to know her, and ifyou want to ask her out, you have to respect the fact she may want to consider your friendship before dating you. She may be afraid to be '; with '; you because if you would ever break up, if you woudl not talk as much as you did before. Be kind, gentle, and understanding to her is all I can sya really.
aww cute. you should as her to hang out sometime. it seems like yall would be cute together. and its great that yall r friends. good friends make good couples. =) anyway good luck
Try telling her how you feel and that you want to be more than friends. It's best to be upfront and girls like that.
well if you tkink she likes you dont wait and torture yourself. Go for it! Ask the girl out most likely she wants to be with you too so why wait? thats my veiw on it. Ask her to something simple though, dont be ssssooooo freakin pushy, girls hate that!!!
Well, if you two are flirting, it would seem as if she likes you. Ask her to hangout with you and a few of your friends sometime. If things go well, ask her out just the two of you. Or, if you think you aren't ready to date, just go on being friends with her and getting to know her better.
i'm pretty sure she likes you. ask her out. just take her like minigolfing or swimming or something good luck
ask her out thats what i think you should do.... end of story
wow. u have a really good start with this girl well you could invite her to go with a group someplace fun like an amusment park or fun activitys like a game night if it works go further maybe to a movie alone if not well then u tried and i think and know that it is weird for a guy to kiss on a first ';date'; especially if u r in the company of other people but holding hands is fine if she wants to
i think you better send her to hospital.
tell her what you just wrote


and how you feel


most girls like guys that really listen to them


take a chance


she probably likes you too

I am in love with my best friend and need advice. Any ideas?

Hello everyone!





I am very confused and in need of advice. I am totally in love with my best friend. I am a 23 year old (woman) and have known him since I was 12. At one point or another, we have had feelings for each each other since freshman year of high school. In high school, he was the one who wanted me to be his girlfriend but I was not ready for that at the time.





Being in college, and now college graduates, it seems like most of the feelings come from me, although he seems interested as well at times. Last year, he moved three hours away and we still keep in contact. When we see each other, things are great! We go to dinner, the movies, clubbing, or just hang out at his place.





It seems that if something was going to happen between us, it already would have. But when we hang out, I definately still feel sparks and other people notice there is something there also. We never talk about our feelings for each other. Finally in December, I asked him if anything was ever gonna happen between us and he said that at that time, he was not in a position to do it whole-heartedly and he wouldn't want to be with me unless it was whole-heartedly. He told me that he is emotionally attracted to me.





However, his actions don't fully support that. I know he has been busy in his life lately but I feel like I am the one making an effort to talk. I saw him a couple days ago and we went to dinner and he was giving me compliments like ';You look amazing, your hair looks amazing, and your eyes are amazing.'; During conversation, I mentioned that I am the kind of person who demands respect. Then he shook his body because he got the chills. I asked him why he had the chills and he said, ';because I will marry the woman who demands respect.';





Being super confused, I attempted to talk with him about it. I told him that I am confused because I don't know how to take some of the things he tells me. I told him I didn't know if he was being nice and giving me compliments at dinner and simply making conversation or if he meant those things in a romantic way. He got nervous being on the spot and said '; I guess I need to be more careful on what I say. I meant that as giving compliments and making conversation.';





I am out of ideas and can't make him talk about his feelings if he doesn't want to. BUt he does treat me differently than his other friends as he pays for everything, opens the car door, and talks about the future and marriage (in general). I am tired of not knowing what he thinks and I need advice. Sorry bout the length but comments or insights will be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! :)I am in love with my best friend and need advice. Any ideas?
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What Pro-tools & Computer Combo is best for me!? (I NEED EXPERT ADVICE, BIG POINTS!!!)?

Whats up ya'll, I've heard a lot of things like Pro-tools not being compatible with vista etc. basically I just need a simple answer so I can take action. I have around $2000-2500 to spend on a nice Pro-tools set up and computer. Which combo should I get? I've been looking into a Digi 002 set up with a mac laptop or an alienware computer. However, I've heard that Pro-tools isn't compatible with vista(?). I'll need the computer and Pro-tools for my hip-hop crew, its very simple, I'm playing beats into the machine and also doing vocal recording so it may not require an elaborate Pro-tools set up. Sampling may happen, but I think its going to be limited because of sampling laws and money. What should I get? Please don't say an M-Audio FireWire 410 because I heard that vocal recording on that is ****. Peace, thanks ya'll big points riding on this question.What Pro-tools %26amp; Computer Combo is best for me!? (I NEED EXPERT ADVICE, BIG POINTS!!!)?
Ok I work as a commercial producer in a local radio station and we've recently gone over to pro-tools. I've tried both versions - PC and MAC... don't touch a PC - its unstable and its slow. In our studio in work we use a digi 002 rack system going to a G5 mac - and its fantastic. It rarely if ever crashes and its super fast. At home I use a digi 002 desk and a mac mini - again it never crashes and is relatively fast. So between the lines from a computer point of view don't go past the apple mac - now as a mac mini isn't even breaking a sweat on running pro-tools, I would suggest that the black macbooks would be perfect to run it - and the mac book pro (dream machines of laptops) would certainly fly through it. If you're going for a desktop, don't spend a fortune on a fabulous mac (unless you have money to burn), buy a good imac - this would run it perfectly.





As for the interface, I've also used an m-box, so of the three options..... I love my digi 002 desk - theres a lot to be said for having that hands on feel to faders, and not having to scroll around with a mouse trackpad on a laptop - I wouldn't swap it - plenty of inputs, very very easy to use and most importantly - very high quality recording - which sounds perfect for what you want... the digi 002 rack is also top notch for recording, but less hands on - you need to control virtually everything using a mouse in the software. The m-box - yuk! I hated it - its the ultimate portability, but I don't like the sound off of it - it is cheap,and consequently sounds cheap.





So there you have it - I would go for a macbook (black or pro) and a digi 002 desk if you have the bucks to spend. Check the apple refurb store for good bargains, and since digidesign have released an upgraded digi desk, I'd imagine the 002's are clearing for a better price.





Hope this was of some help...





WBWhat Pro-tools %26amp; Computer Combo is best for me!? (I NEED EXPERT ADVICE, BIG POINTS!!!)?
What up


I use 002 w/ AMD windows XP with 2G of ram /sp2.


Works great.


I've worked on the 002, 002 rack, and MBOX


they are all pretty fly for hip-hop.





-if your a hands on person I would say get the 002.


its also easyier for live automation and control knobs.





-If your into using a mouse but need the 8 Audio inputs to do multi vocal recording or band recording get 002 rack.





-if you just need a simple set up with 2 audio inputs and phantom power, yet all the application of the 002 get the MBOX alot cheaper too.





As far as Computer go I would get the Mac.


I had my PC built for what I do so that made the difference.





good luck on your Decision.





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My fiancee is so bossy and controling,I can't take it.He thinks he always knows what's best for me?Any advice?

He's really bossy and he thinks he's always right.And he makes better decisions,and he always try and use big words and theres no need for it.The words sometimes don't excist,I don't open my mouth.Any advice?My fiancee is so bossy and controling,I can't take it.He thinks he always knows what's best for me?Any advice?
you might want to think long and hard before marrying him, this is a pattern of behavior that will only get worse after marriage..My fiancee is so bossy and controling,I can't take it.He thinks he always knows what's best for me?Any advice?
Yes. DO NOT MARRY HIM.





Why would you want to marry someone who treated you like a child?
Marriage involves submission in some areas which is hard as h*** to do. I dont know what 'good model' of marriage you are working off of but which ever one you are...note whether its working or if it ends up in failure. I am that typical ';strong willed, I can do this on my own, dont tell me what to do, you think you know everything'; black woman. The thought of my husband 'knowing whats best for me' was like nails on a blackboard-I couldnt stand the idea. My husband, when we first got married and really for the last two years has been bossy...difficult, not really willing to listen, like Im dumb or something...so I understand the frustration. What I had to realize is that God has to show him where he is wrong. Its not loving me to be bossy. Its not loving me to ignore my point of view. Its taking advantage of me to overtalk me. It has taken a mammoth amount of patience but he's gotten better. He listens..he realizes I have a brain and he doesnt know everything. He realizes that hearing me out doesnt mean Im controlling everything. It took God to make him see that though. Your fiance has some pride issues and it takes God to knock him down a few pegs. Its going to take alot of patience on your part but if you really love him, you can hold on through the rough patches with God's help. Most people will tell you 'dump him and get another' but that doesnt help you learn how to have a lasting relationship. That just tells you how to quit.





I encourage you to get into your bible with your fiance and see what marriage is supposed to look like. The 'men are dominate' thing will draw him in but after awhile he'll see...its not about ruling OVER your wife..its about sacrificing all that you are for her. Its been like heaven since my husband realized that. Id' have never seen the day if I gave up though.





my prayers are with you....
So.. a large vocabulary isn't useful? Better decisions are not useful?





Honey... I think perhaps you have gotten yourelf a man who wants to make himself feel better by making you feel smaller.





It is ok to have a large vocabulary, I promise. But bossing people around is not so useful..





The thing is.. do you love him? If you do..then BEFORE you marry him.. find out why he needs to be so controlling. FIND OUT. If it is something you CAN help him with. then go for it. Otherwise.. why marry him? You would always resent his bossiness..and he would want to make you regret it.
All I can say is NEXT..... It only get worse when you are married...
Get out while you can a controlling boyfriend is no fun... it will only get worst...and he is bossy too....how much fun is this guy.....
Don't get married just yet he is already annoying imagine when you are married.
communiction is always the answer: tell him that you NEED to talk and then kindly describe the issues that you are having with him and hi s';comtrolling manor';. I am sure that he will deny it, but calmly and gently tell him that you feel like his trying to be your superior... and you want to feel like his equal..... good luck!!! :)
Well try 2 sit down and talk to him about his way of controlling things?


find the courage to stand up 2 him?
yea...LEAVE HIM





U don't NEED this ish girl, he ONLY your fiancee, just be glad he's NOT your husband.
Say something or leave. If you marry him, you have to realize that you love being bossed around or controlled all the time. Otherwise, you need to leave now, even if you do love him. Your life will be miserable with a dictator for a husband. Marriage is supposed to be a partership, not a master/slave relationship. He needs to realize that now, and you need to realize that most men have a hard time changing their ways. As a man, I know what I am talking about here.
you should definitely do some marriage counselling before you get married if you have problems... which seems like you do.
Start opening your mouth. Don't let anyone walk all over you, especially someone who doesn't know what the hell they are talking about. If he doesn't change, then it is time to dip out of the relationship.
Just know one thing. Life with a bossy control freak will cause you nothing but misery. I KNOW! I married someone who is bossy, stubborn, controling but has no self control of their own.


If you get married, you are walking into hell with both eyes wide open. I look back and wish I had cut my losses, even if it meant living in a flop house till I got back on my feet.


I keep quite just like you do to keep the peace, but yet I am holding in resentment and I feel like a weak idiot for not ending the relationship years ago. YOU will be me if you marry this man. Have his children and it will REALLY get harder to end it. Other people will get hurt, your children.
maybe you should think twice before you say '; i do';. there is a good chance he will get worse down the road!
yup dump him
Honey, your not married yet, if he's bossy and controlling now he'll be even worse after. I've been married 22yr. now. Take my work for it just how he is now is just how he will be after. He's not going to change. You need to find a man that values what you think and how you fill. It should not all be his way and it should not all be your way. There should be a balance in the middle, and you should be happy with things. IF YOUR NOT GET OUT.
open your mouth.
don't marry him it will only get worse.
because you dont open your mouth his bossiness is getting worse isnt it? .....either speak up or leave
Go to counseling. He needs help. This is the beginning of an abuse relationship. Any person is not right all the time. He seems insecure and those are the one that will beat you down the road in a couple years. Anyone getting married, should go to a therapist. Don't get married in a hurry. If it is true love, it will still be there in a year or two.
Uh....





Leave?





You know once the ring is on you will most likely be put at a level even below what you are now in his eyes.





Tell him for once you are making a better decision and LEAVING HIM LOL!
How well do you actually know your fiance? I ask this because of the things that you have stated in your info. What I do know to be a fact is that people aren't born @--holes, life makes them that way. In other words, it's the experiences that we go through from the time that we are children til present that set the foundation of who we are today and who we will become. What you need to do, is take each issue that you have with him and figure out the why of how it started. You can't control what others do, but you can change their behavior with how you choose to react to what they are doing. You say he's bossy, that usually means he likes to be in control...Why? He makes better decisions....Is that his issue, or your own feelings of inadequacy because he does like to be in control and he is usually right? Using big words can be the result of his own feelings of inadequacy or maybe just simply that he is trying to impress you. Giving up on the relationship is not the answer to everything. You obviously love him or you wouldn't have agreed to become his wife. I do agree that you need to evaluate these things before the wedding vowels are said. But don't thin out just because things have gotten thick.
How serious is this relationship? If this relationship is not serious, you should really sit down and have a good quiet talk about what he is doing. If he doesn't respond or want to talk it over then make a decision. Just flat out tell him if he doesn't stop then take a hike. He sounds like to me that he wants the upper hand, and what he says is the golden rule. Your opinion just doesn't count, and it's his way or the highway. If you are having this problem in the early part of your relationship, then what do you think it's going to be like if/and when you get married. He will badger and look down on you as if you are inferior to him, and he will do that in front of your and his friends. From what you have written it doesn't sound like to me that you want to live like a pawn do you? You don't need to be treated inferior, and he should not do that to you. How would he like that if the role was reversed. I would find someone else who would care for you the way you should be, and you can return the affection sincerely. Make a choice, and be happy in the future. Good luck, Butchrgt.
Dear it's all depends on how deep is your love for him. If you can open one eyes and close one eyes than this relationship can still goes on. Communication is the key words to it. Look for a suitable time to bring out your disatisfaction. Of course you do not want to bring it up when he is busy and i'll bet he will not listen. i have this problems too with my hubby. When you think he is controlling it can mean a lot. If you think the positive way he can be caring but if it's the opposite he'll sounds like a bad guy. If i give my piss of mind to my hubby at a correct time he will listen but wheather he change or not is another matter. At least i speak out. Try it Toni. It might help.

FASHION ADVICE!! 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!!?

Well my friend is 16 and she's just under 5ft and she wants to dress older. she wants to look taller and more developed, but achieving this just using clothes.





I DONT WANT TO HEAR ''oh you shouldnt want to change yourself'' AND ALL THAT CRAP. I ASKED A QUESTION AND I DONT WANT A LECTURE THAT HAS NO POINT AND THAT DOESNT ANSWER ANYTHING.





Any suggestions? pictures would help loads!FASHION ADVICE!! 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!!?
High heels are a girls best friend! In the Winter she can wear boots, and the spring and summer, high heels! :) They don't have to be huge 6inch heels either, but wedges and kitten heels, are just as cute, and add extra height.





Shorter skits (don't have too be short either) give the illusion that someone is taller, as they show more leg, as do short shorts, high-waisted shorts are both classy and will make her look older! :)





Look at the styles of celebs like Hayden Pattinere and Kylie, they're both petite, but still brilliant stylish and gorgeous ! :)FASHION ADVICE!! 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!!?
well, i dont know how to make her look taller.


wearing shoes with a bit more rubber help.


also, tops that just hit the tops of your jeans


skinny jeans are a good idea too. xD





hope i helped.
Heels will make her look longer and more mature so they do two in one.





Verticle stripes like on a dress pant or shirt will lengthen her looks as well.


Get a pair of jeans that just barely touch the ground while wearing heels and it will lengthen your body A LOT. No cropped pants like capris or things like that. Look for dark colors that elongate yourself.





Vnecks give the illusion of looking longer. If you have short legs, wear mini skirts that aren't very long which will make your legs appear longer. Don't wear heavy shoes like platforms and big sneakers.





Also mid length tunics and dress shirts can make her look shorter, but they are so cute just wear heels and it should fix it up





:)
Well I don't Have any Pics of the outfits but I recently read this magazine called girls life and a 16 year old sent in asking how to look taller and girls life said that she should wear neon colors or color that pop out and a belt over you shirt around your hips and a pencil skirt








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She could wear high heels to look taller, and I don't know how to make her look more developed. :(
Dayum chicka, calm dhe fhuuck down ! lmfao. :]


I`m short too, but I don`t think clothesz would make her taller.


Maybe she should wear heels more oftenn.

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ILL PICK U FOR THE BEST ANSWER. need tips, advice and things about poems and are these 2 ok..?

Ok well lately I have been really interested in writting poems but I have a few questions. Is writting poems and poetry the same thing? Like when your writting poetry does it rhyme to like poems?.





And when your writting poems do all poems need to have a imagery ? Like you have to describe things and the reader has to be able to picture what the writter is talking about in there poem. ?





Because heres 2 poems that I had wrote and it just came to me so i wrote them down and stuff but do you think there pretty good?





1:


She has a smile on her face like everything is ok,


but deep inside she wants to run away. No one will understand


the way she feels, but shes just hoping for a place where this can all just heal. Shes also been through more then anyone can imagine, But just waiting for something good to happen.





2: I get these feelings that may be true, That I am falling quite hard over you. When you give me a hug, my heart beats 10 times fast, but then I remember this time wont last. So each night I stay up thinking of you, and just hoping you feel the same way too. Because i think i'm crazy in love with you.





Like are those 2 poems ok.


Do you even think i should still write? or am i pretty bad. Because im trying to understand this and i want to learn ILL PICK U FOR THE BEST ANSWER. need tips, advice and things about poems and are these 2 ok..?
omg your poems are great!!! can you write more and send it to me?


email is chulaflyhigh@yahoo.com





well yeah back to your question um i believe that poems and poetry have a little difference. and thats that poetry is just a little bit longer. other than that ebverything else is the same.





and the imagery part is totally up to you. and depends on what your writing about. if you want imagery you'll have to write longer in that case poetry. but these to are great and very relateable. ILL PICK U FOR THE BEST ANSWER. need tips, advice and things about poems and are these 2 ok..?
i enjoyed reading them. both are well-written and i can understand what it is saying ..its like a story. you should still write. do you enjoy writing? if you do, then don't stop. go for it =)

Guys advice... 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!?

I play volleyball for my school team.


So i wear my hair in a ponytail a lot kinda. But I think it looks pretty good, cause my hair is really long and dark and usually straight.





SOO, do guys not like when girls wear in a ponytail a lot?


What's the most times you think a girl should wear it up in a week?


Guys advice... 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!?
Tbh i think girls luk nice with there hair that way honestly bout 3-4 times a week only because you shouldnt keep it the same all the time because people get to use to u with the same apperence i bet ya luk gurjuss just stay confident xGuys advice... 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!?
I think pony tails are totally hot


nice and causual and unassuming


plus totally sexy when you take it out and give your hair a shake too.


but its not a night out kinda thing





so wear it wenevah you want, but only rock it causual style
once or twice.

鈾LL PICK U FOR THE BEST ANSWER鈾?I need advice on being Outgoing&making out! Im Seeing this guy tomorrow!HELP鈽?

Ok well ill try to make it short as possible. There this guy name Vince that liked me in 7th grade, then i liked him in 8th and now i like him. Well i got held back this year but he told me on myspace that he would of already asked me out if i went to his high school %26amp; he was saying that next year me %26amp; him should go out. And well anyways We talk on myspace all the time but we never really talked much in real life, But he asked me to go to two of his games and i went but i brought 2 different friends with me both times, and this friday im hanging out with him!





And i've talked to him a lot on myspace and a few people think are conversation we had is cute lol but im really nervous. Because i told him a few times that i like him and he told me that he thinks im cute and all but he doesnt know me that well to say if he likes me. But he told me that he thinks ';walking around his high school as in (just me and him )would be nice:)'; and then he was talking about making out! And i totally thought he was kidding but he wasnt. And I need advice on first: Hes like really outgoing, and hes kind of perverted but he likes to joke around a lot and have fun. u know? and me im kind of outgoing but i can be shy. And When it comes to boys, I make a bad girlfriend! and i get really shy and quiet and i cant help it:{ So i need advice on how i can joke around and be outgoing around him. And he was telling me that he wonders who is a better kisser me or him and i said ';i think we both know the answer to that one ;)'; and he said not yet maybe this week will find out:) and Now Im SO Nervous lol! I have NO idea how to make out. Can someone plz give advice on step to step on how to make out. And my mouth usually gets really watery so how am i suppose to swallow with his tongue in my mouth!?!? lol. And I was wondering maybe i can just say to him that idk if i would wanna make out because i made out with a few guys and it dint work out to well.. they were really bad at it ? or something lol.





Idk plz give advicee:)illl pick u for the best answerr鈾LL PICK U FOR THE BEST ANSWER鈾?I need advice on being Outgoing%26amp;making out! Im Seeing this guy tomorrow!HELP鈽?
I've always had the problem of being shy around boyfriends, I get quiet and can't think of anything to say. What I've had to do in the past is come up with a list of things the nite before that I want to talk to him about or mention to him. Think of a funny story, something that happened to you or something someone did that was hillarious, and tell him about it. (Like I told mine about a time my friends were at a sleepover and stuck their bras in the freezer, haha). Just some little funny story. It may feel sorta like cheating to think of things before hand, but it can really help you until you get more comfortable around the person.


As far as making out, believe me it comes naturally. Everyone always asks how to do it step-by-step, but it really isn't as complicated as you would think, and it'll just happen. But I'll give you tips.


1) Don't just make out with your mouth, make out with your hands. Touch his face with your hands, run your fingers through his hair, etc.


2) Don't just stick your tongue in there, have it ';squash'; with his.


3) When it gets to this point later, just so you know, guys love it for you to kiss their ear ;-)





If he's a good guy, then he'd be kind if you told him that you just want to be totally honest and let him know you're nervous about making out because you just haven't had a whole lot of experience making out with guys. He'd probably just laugh and say he can teach you ;-)





Anyway, good luck.鈾LL PICK U FOR THE BEST ANSWER鈾?I need advice on being Outgoing%26amp;making out! Im Seeing this guy tomorrow!HELP鈽?
It just happens.


You'll know what to do!


And I agree: run your fingers through his hair and later on kiss his ear and neck


Good luck girlie :]


email me if you need anymore advice: duh_itsbrandi_xo@yahoo.com

Were can i find the best page for lalkitab advice for free?

hmm...googleWere can i find the best page for lalkitab advice for free?
oh,


just e-mail at my yahoo e-mail......on my website people always ask me personal and other types of questions.

Ok 10 points to the best anser i need advice?

ok i known this girl since preschool were both in 8th grade. so we are on on the same soccer team . during pratice she said she was going to tackel or trip me. and called me a jerk a cuple times. but later she said shes too nice to tackel or trip me. the nexst day we had a game and she five fived me and only me. it was raining hard during the game but when she was leaveing she said bye to only me wich was strange becouse no one els bye or anything and every one jest left exspect me becouse i need to stay there in the rain for anther hour. we go to the same school but we dont have any classes together and no one is outgoing in my school like when they like people most is shy like me


does she like me and what should i do?Ok 10 points to the best anser i need advice?
Yeah she probably does, because a way a girl flirts with a guy is sometimes calling him names and stuff like that, but also trying to get you to pay attention to her by high fiving and all that. If you like her, you should flirt back and then ask to her hang out after a game. If you don't, then just act like a friend.Ok 10 points to the best anser i need advice?
yeh i think she likes you :)


I think the jerk part was only a joke!


i think you should ask her out! Or if your to shy start flirting with her and see where it goes from there!





Good luck!
sounds like it and if you like her ask her to go out somewhere on a date

鈾LL Pick U for the BEST ANSWER鈾?I need advice on making out&being outgoing! IM SEEING HIM TOMORROW lol 鈽衡棙鈾?

Well ill try to make this as short as possible. There is this guy name Vince that liked me in 7th grade, then i liked him in 8yh, and now i like him! Well we talk on myspace all the time but we never really got to talk in real life. He told me on myspace awhile ago that he would of asked me out already if i went to his high school (but i got held back)) but he was saying next year me %26amp; him should go out. And Well he has even asked me to go to two of his games, and i went but i brought a friend with me both times. And this time he asked me on myspace if i really like him or am i just messing. And I told him i like him and he told me that he thinks im cute and all but he doesn't know me that well to say if he likes me. So thats why this friday were hanging out and im really nervous!





Because he told me that he thinks ';walking around his high school (as in just me and him) would be nice:) THEN he was talking about making out and he was being all flirty and stuff and i totally thought he was kidding! so i was going along and being all flirty and stuff and it turns out hes not kidding. And So i pretty much have no choice but to make out with him because i pretty much already told him that i would maybe make out with him! ANd now im so nervous! :[ I was wondering how can i be outgoing and confident. Because hes like outgoing, and hes kind of perverted but he likes to joke around and have fun. And me im kind of outgoing but when it comes to boys i am SOO Shy. and i make the worst girlfriend ever.





So how can i be outgoing, and be able to joke around and be fun, and HOW DO I MAKE OUT? I was thinking about maybe making an excuse and saying well idk.. because i made out with a few guys but they were really bad at it lol or something? Because i have nooo idea how to make out! And If i nervous just to be ALONE with him then i dont think i would have the guts to make out with him. i dont even think i can touch him! lol :[





But plz give me step by step advice on how to make out %26amp; my mouth usually waters a lot! So how am i suppose to swallow with his tongue in my mouth?? lol. And im gonna feel stupid waiting there alone for his game to end.. and then hanging out would probably just be really awkward:[ ughh鈾LL Pick U for the BEST ANSWER鈾?I need advice on making out%26amp;being outgoing! IM SEEING HIM TOMORROW lol 鈽衡棙鈾?
Its not in my nature to be mean. I try to remember how jaded I was as a teen.





BUT...





Stop worrying about kissing, and worry about PASSING whatever grade your in this time.鈾LL Pick U for the BEST ANSWER鈾?I need advice on making out%26amp;being outgoing! IM SEEING HIM TOMORROW lol 鈽衡棙鈾?
just be youself
Stop Worrying... Just be yourself.... Let him lead in the kissing and stuff, but do anything that you don't want to do.... And remember to have fun!

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PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! (10 POINTS BEST ANSWER) I NEED ADVICE ASAP!?

Okay In Febuary One Of My Friends Startedd Texting Me And He Said He Liked Me And Stuff That He Was Gay And I Told Him To Prove It Was Him He Took A Picture Of Himself And Called Me But I Ignored The Call Because I Thought It Was A Joke But Later I FOund Out It Wasn't When We Went To School He Acted As If Nothing Had Happned So I Thought It Was A Joke And Over Or Whatever But Then Out Of The Blue In March He Calls Me And Asked Me Out I Said No But We Still Talked He Called Me The Whole Weekend Exept Sunday He Ignored My Texts I Honestly Thinks He Was Drinking When He Did It Or Does Not Remember Or Feel This Way At All Everytime I Text Him He Hardley Often Replys And Now I Think He Is Talking To This Other Dude He Was Like ';Yeah I'll See You Later And I Lost YOur Number What Is It'; Sometimes I See Him Looking At Me In Class Not As Much As Before I Honestly Wanna Know If It Was The Alchol Talking, All A Joke Or What I Think I'm Bi And Really Do Like Him What Should I Do? Have I Spoiled My Chances? I Don't Want Anyone To Know Should I Just Tell Him When School Gets Out So He Cant Spread It Around School Or Do It ASAP?PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! (10 POINTS BEST ANSWER) I NEED ADVICE ASAP!?
if i wasn't forced to read Every Single First Letter Of Every Single Word Capitalized In Your Paragraph, I Would Actually Try To Answer Your Question.

I can't stand my best friend anymore. Any advice?

We have been friends for six years. We have had such good times in the past, but ever since my divorce she has been very unpleasant to be around. She was friends with my ex-husband who has gender identity disorder, biopolar, and generalized anxiety, so she thought it was terrible when I left him. The last year of my marriage, I was so lonely that I had a emotional internet affair with a younger man. I became very close with the man and developed a very strong bond with him. After my divorce, I met him in person. To make a long story short, we fell in love and he moved across the country to be with me. Well my ';best friend'; was so incredibly jealous, she couldn't stand to see me happy. You see she is 35 years old and has never been married and can never keep a relationship for very long because she has so many issues. Anyway, every time I see her now, she's so rude and negative. She gets mad that I don't spend as much time with her now. She demands that I call her and write her, and if I don't she gets pissed off. My boyfriend works nights and only has two days off a week where we can be together. I want to be with him on these days and she can't understand that. She says she's felt left out ever since he's come to live here. However, I still see her a couple of times a month and we do girl's nights out, so I don't understand why she thinks I'm leaving her out. But whenever we hang out, she ends up pissing me off somehow. She always has to have her way and she will never make definite plans. Sometimes she flakes out on me. Like last week she asked if my boyfriend and I would like to see a movie with her and her other guy friend. She demanded we go to a theater all the way across town, and then cancelled as we were driving there saying that something else came up. I'm getting really tired of her behavior. She's mean and nasty to me and I don't know what to do. I've had good times with her in the past so I don't really want to end the whole friendship, but I don't enjoy spending time with her anymore. Any advice?I can't stand my best friend anymore. Any advice?
Sounds like it may be time to move on. Friendships, like all relationships, can sometimes come to an end. Sure you've had a good run but it may be time to take the memories and leave - it doesn't mean your friendship wasn't worthwhile, it may just mean it has run its course and it's time to explore new relationships. The fact that your friend isn't happy for you and seems to make inconveniences in your life show that you've grown apart and that the relationship is perhaps unhappy.





If you're absolutely determined to try to keep what is left of the relationship alive, although i advise against doing so, you absolutely must confront her about what she dos that angers you before everything goes up in smoke - it's better to keep the good memories and ending things on a good note rather than have everything destroyed...trust me, thats coming from experience!


Good luck!I can't stand my best friend anymore. Any advice?
Just as you couldn't repair the past with your husband, you can't repair this friendship. You deserve a friendship that is open with someone with whom you can be yourself: not someone undependable and shallow.
tell her what shes doing and that you dont like it and that you need some space because you cant hang around her for nwo for the way shes acting
Sounds like your trying and she wants you when your not around. She needs to deal with the fact that your beating her in the love catagorie and not be so competative. I think shes trying to sabatoge you.
if its that bad; stop hanging out with her. She's going to make your life hell so just see hows life without her. You'll probably enjoy the less stress
Get a REAL friend.


.....you need to let it go and move on.








She'll apologize for anything when the times get easier.





GOOD LUCK !
All is can say is a best friend would want to see you happy even thought it makes them sad.
I've been friends with my bff for about 4 years now, realizing it now I guess I'm kind of like your friend. But you see, unlike her I don't get jealous even if every guy likes her. She needs to get help, she needs to talk to someone, because obviously she needs a friend to help her solve with these jealousy problems. This is the time she needs you the most. Nobody wants to be 40 and single, especially a woman. I can see it her point of view, can you? I also understand you want to be with him, but realize that one night wouldn't kill you to just chill. You will have him for the rest of your life, your friendship with her has been longer. You will always need friends in life and she pisses you off, calm down. Try to think that it wasn't her intention, she just need attention.
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definitely not reading all of that but if you have a valid reason not to just start to drift away from her, don't start any rumors because since this was your best friend they will spread rumors or tell some of your secrets and people WILL believe them since they were your best friend, just end it on a good note.. still smile and say hi but just keep it at that

What do British men prefer best in a girl??? Need info/advice please.?

I need some info on dating british guys because i will move to england someday!!!What do British men prefer best in a girl??? Need info/advice please.?
British men are a waste of time. You must look past that accent, they are not that great. All mummy's boys, childish, tight w/money, will only take a girl out to dinner if sex is guaranteed, alcoholics, sexist. They may have a great sense of humour but that is not all that makes a good relationship. Sadly, they are very controlling and look down on Americans in general. I would take a German or Frenchman anyday. I think w/German more so they would be direct, honest even if they do go Dutch at least tehy are more fair to women. French because they have more sense of duty and family.What do British men prefer best in a girl??? Need info/advice please.?
everyone is different,i need honesty,above looks,nice in bed is good too.
I am dating a Britain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
My husband says ';Nice bums and a sense of humour'; - guess I should be flattered!
I lived in England for 6 years. I can tell you one thing....all British guys are momma's boys. So be like a ';mum';. And get used to it because if you find one and stay with him you'll be mothering him for the rest of your life. Best bet is to find an American guy who's living over there. Much better choice.
Some say the way to a mans heart is through his stomach?


Thank God I cook for myself!,some say we are grumpy first thing in the morning before we have had a cup of tea `n` a ciggy,my hands go up there!,as to what we like,we are all different but are beginning to realise that the majority of women these days puts career first before us sensible if you are in no rush to start a family?it`s a good job we are different because if we were all the same life wouldn`t be interesting would it.?Personally as an Englishman I prefer down to earth,honest,natural women, any race creed colour who wish to have an open relationship with a sense of adventure thrown in.
I'm a British guy. We are all different. Oh and by the way we dont all have crooked teeth and talk like the queen by the way! lol. I'm taken but for dating some of my mates all you need is a pulse! hehe
Not all Brits are mummy's boys, I've never allowed my parents to help me in a long time, I'm content with my independence, have been since I was a kid.


What I prefer in a woman is intellect, an understanding of the world and that life isn't like in the movies, my ex believes in that, and that they can't go letting their parents run thier lives for them, my ex is like that and sold herself to her father. And most important of all, not behaving like some spoilt, pampered brat who can't understand that they're not always going to get their own way. Harsh, yes, but it's something that needs to be said.





Tony.

Ill pick someone for the best answerrrr<3333333. Help/advice plz. Wayyy confused. and are conversationVV?

Well ill try to make this as short as possible. There is this guy name vince that i like and he told me a few times that he likes me too and he flirts w/ me all the time on there. The reason why were not going out is because I got held back:[ so he said that he would of already asked me out if i went to his high school but right now we would never see eachother:[ And he said plus we never hung out before. And well we vince has been trying to hang out w/ me.. Like on friday he tried but it dint work out. And vince asked me if i think this would work out? Because he can never find a time to hang out:[ and i just told him that idk.





And well now im rlly confused because there is this guy name Brandon that likes me. And Vince knows that brandon had told me that he likes me. Vince had told me before that he is jealous. And well heres are conversation of me and vince. Me ';I just told brandon that me %26amp; him should be friends';, Vince: ';its okay if u like him..id understand:)we can be friends its okay, and u can go out w/him, its fine.just as long as we stay friends:)'; Me: ';


well i just dont like him like that and hes ok with just being friends so its all good. :)'; Vince: ';rikki. u dont have to tell me those things.i know u like him i can tell by the comments. its really okay, we can just be friends too:)'; Me: well u sound like u would just want to be friends w/ me:( And lol i honestly dont like him like that. Me and him have been friends for awhile. And vince replied this morning saying ';well if thats only if u want it that way, if your happy, im happy:)%26lt;3 well okay..haha:] And i feel like a total ***** because i replied back saying ';wow. lol well it doesn't matter to me anymore'; And do u think that was mean of me to say?? Should i send him another message saying: Hey sorry about that last message i sent you, that was a ***** of me to say. And well.. i like you and you know i like you but it seems like u just want to be friends. so idk its up to you. So do u think i should write that?. helppIll pick someone for the best answerrrr%26lt;3333333. Help/advice plz. Wayyy confused. and are conversationVV?
if you really believe that this relationship is special then just let him know you want to see him and then explain it to him and make sure to leave the sarcasm out of it.Ill pick someone for the best answerrrr%26lt;3333333. Help/advice plz. Wayyy confused. and are conversationVV?
yeah say that thats good. gl!
I dont think you should tell him that was a ***** of you to say, but I think you should ask him what he wants and tell him that you like him and not Brandon. Because one of two things ould be happening, he either really just wants you to pick and thinks you like the kid, or...he just wants to ne friends and thats his way of telling you. But given everything that youve said I would go with the first one. I think he just wants you to pick one, and not string along both, even if your not doing that he may think you are. So I would just ask him again if he likes you and tell him that you really like him too, and want to try and make you two work. Dont even mention brandon, and hopefully he will get the hint that he should ask you out already.
ok here is the thing:


the reason why people get confused is b/c they beat around the bush too much. what you need to come right out and say is,'; look i like you a lot and i want to go out with YOU, not brandon. he is a cool friend, but i just dont like him like that, i only like you.'; he needs to hear that and just be really forward, guys like that a bunch.





good luck sweetie
Well don't send him that text message.





He seems to be sending mixed signals... ';I like you';... ';I just want you to be happy';... ';We can just be friends too';...





You need to confront him, these games need to stop!





Maybe you can both join a club or something so that you can have fun and see each other.
Wow, you really like vince, You are just thinking of brandon because you know you can date him, but you wont have feelings for him like Vince. Tell Vince you are sorry for what happened earlier and that Brandon is not the guy you want. And when Vince says its okay you can date him if you want, You will say: No babe, I wouldn't do that to you, I care for you to much... then you will have a love story to tell.

I think there is viruse in my laptop,what would be your advice to me?what is best to do to protece it and ?

remove the viruse?





I have Symantec Antiviruse and one Anti Spy , I had Zonalarm but since it had trial I just remove it.





What should I do to be sure that my laptop is totally safe and for free?LOLI think there is viruse in my laptop,what would be your advice to me?what is best to do to protece it and ?
Sweetheart, you know you have the bestest PC technician in all the world at your fingertips.





You need to get rid of Symantec (see the link below for the tool to do that) and get the FREE version of AVG Antivirus.





Then, you need to download the FREE version of Spybot Search %26amp; Destroy.





Then, you need to update them both, and run scans with them. Delete anything they find. If they cannot delete something, restart in SAFE MODE (hold F8 on restart and choose SAFE MODE) and run them again.





You can message me or email if you have any questions.I think there is viruse in my laptop,what would be your advice to me?what is best to do to protece it and ?
I don't think so, If you suspect theres a virus in your laptop Norton should have found it, You can try to download free anti virus in download.com to be sure of that, The best way to protect your Computer is not to open websites you don't trust and do not open mail attachments if you do not know the sender, Viruses can infect your computer on bad websites and unknown email attachment.
AVG Anti virus and McAfee virus scan are supposed to help a lot.check out http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-sAFtLsc8e鈥?/a> for more details.
Get rid of Symantec anti-virus and install AVG free from http://www.free.grisoft.com
I aggree with the others, AVG. But uninstall Borton, 2 anti-virus reduces security. While you are there they do a free anti-spyware. This may be required if your infection is spyware related. Make sure you keep both up to date.
Use an up to date antivirus and do a full system scan of your PC.





If you don't have an antivirus, you can download a free one called AVG here. http://free.grisoft.com/
First get Spybot Search %26amp; Destroy and do a search on your computer. get a decent anti-virus program (Im highly recomending Trend Micro) you will have to pay for it but it is well worth it.
Try Kaspersky AntiVirus v7.0 in http://www.kaspersky.com/ For me,this antivirus is the best!

What type of diet is best reccomended for women who are overweight and need advice to lose weight?

diet programme and foodsWhat type of diet is best reccomended for women who are overweight and need advice to lose weight?
Homeopathic Treatment for Excessive Fat and Weight :-


PHYTOLACCA BERRY's Mother Tincture is perhaps the safest and sure fire way of loosing excessive fat around abdomen. With Phytolacca Berry once you loose the excessive fat and weight you don't get it back because you body takes care of itself after that and keeps you from gathering up excessive fat. It is prescribed after having a baby too, to get the tummy to loose its flab and to make it flatter and tighter. And after loosing weight with this you don't get flabby it tightens up the flab and skin along with helping your body to shed the excessive accumulation of fat around the girth


The dosage is 15 to 20 drops of the tincture in half a cup of hot water thrice a day half hour before or after meals.


Avoid Chocolates, Coffee, Mints, Red Meat and Carbonated and Alcoholic drinks while taking Homeopathic Medicines. You have to take it for at least 30 to 45 days after that you start to feel the results.


To the best of my knowledge its the safest and the most sure fire way of loosing fat and weight and keeping it of for keeps. Excellent remedy for Obese people who cant seem to shed weight despite trying.


Homeopathic Remedies can be found at all Major Herbal Stores or could be bought on line, In most of the world Homeopathic remedies are quite cheap and easy to find and they do not need a prescription.


Take care and God Bless !What type of diet is best reccomended for women who are overweight and need advice to lose weight?
Try a cleansing diet. I did and lost 10.5 pounds and 17 inches in only 9 days. I continued and lost 25 pounds in 5 weeks. I feel much better. Cleansing helps remove toxins from the chemicals, preservatives, food additives, pollution, medications, alcohol etc...these toxins get stored in your fat cells. to remove the fat, you must remove the toxins with cleansing. call for more info 1-877-587-4647. The program is not cheap but is worth every penny because it works so well
i know hoe you feel because i was in the same boat as you sound like you are i am over weight and i joined weight watchers on 6-15-06 and have lost 17.6 lbs already i love it its a program that works if you are serious about loosing weight you do not need to starve yourself because when you do eat your body stores it as fat it messes up your metabolism they have weekly weigh ins and meetings that give you moral support i dont care if you loose 1 lb they cheer you on its wonderful please give this some thought GOOD LUCK and GOD BLESS YOU
the best diets are those that teach you portion control and are well balanced. Recently, NBC'S The Biggest Loser program became available. The principles of this program are sensible and incorporate exercise. There is a lot of support and motivation which is critical.


Good Luck!
I used a plan called Shapeworks, I lost 95 lbs in 8 months and my wife lost 44 lbs in the same amount of time. It really works! Here is where we found it: www.loseweightnow.com/tfward
It is mostly NOT your fault, if you need to lose weight. The way you have been taught to eat is responsible for making obesity the number one health problem in the world (according to Atlantic Monthly magazine) replacing hunger and infectious disease. You need to re-learn how to eat so you can become thin.





Find out about fastest way to lose weight, gradual ways to lose weight, most effective exercise and anti-water. Lose bodyfat and retained water which also makes you a lot fatter (bloated). Plus click on ';Pure Water'; to make sure the water you drink doesn't hurt you. Most important-- make sure to read the last ';fat loss tip';, first before anything else, to see the number one food that causes Americans to be fat.





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low carb diet will always work if you stick with it. make sure to get rid of high carb foods and get more low carb foods from the grocery store right away. cuz if you dont have the right food, you'll quite and you dont wanna starve your self.

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10 points for best answer! Didn't get enough answers last time! Please help need advice?

So I have dinner plans, and I thought it was going to be me and 1 girl but it turns out that she wants to bring a friend. I have no problem with except I kind of wanted to have dinner with just her because I wanted to ask her out. How can I do that without sounding like a bad person? Or am I stuck with her friend too? Please help!10 points for best answer! Didn't get enough answers last time! Please help need advice?
Ask one of your single friends to go with you- it can be a double date!10 points for best answer! Didn't get enough answers last time! Please help need advice?
There is two things you can do. Ask someone to keep her friend occupied on the date and do a double date, or tell her honestly you just want it to be her and you. Be real. If not, then she may keep doing things like this, and not know its a problem. So try to communicate with her, and let he know that you want some alone time. If she accepts it, then she likes you, if she is mad, or doesent wanna accept that, then she probablydoes not like you as a bf, and maybe more like just friends.
Maybe she wants to be a friend because she is nervous or shy? Have the two of you gone out before, or is it the first time?





Talk to her. Tell her that you don't mind if the friend goes (try to seem like you don't, it may help you) but that you would really like it to be just the two of you because you had a evening for TWO planned out. :) If she insists her friend goes, don't pressure her any more. Then maybe next time (because you were so cool with her friend going the first time) she will go with you alone.


Good luck!!
hurry up man. probe, probe, question and probe! right now. Without coming out and saying ';leave your friend at home'; you should imply that and figure why she wants to leave her friend at home. maybe thats her way of saying, ';this is not that kind of date';. Figure out why, what you did wrong, what you can change. And why shes inviting her friend. you can ask that. ';oh i didnt know your friend wanted to come'; ';she wants to come too?'; then she will go off and explain why and you are just going to have to read her on that. In person it would be better to see her reactions.
Maybe she is still figuring out if she likes you. Ask her if it is alright if one of your friends joins you also (not your funnier better looking friend). Play it cool, and have a good time. if everything goes well then ask her out again later.. you'll both feel more comfortable with the situation.
She either brought her friend to prevent you from asking her out, or because you intimidte her. lol. But i think you're gonna be stuck with the friend.
You're stuck with the friend unless you wanna be a di**. Ask her out another day...you guys are not terminally ill i'm assuming...
do a double date?