Becoming roommates with someone she has a crush on is probably not the best idea. If at all possible, she should admit her attraction and move on now, but if not:
I'd advise her to politely say that something came up and she's not going to be able to move in.
OR
If plans are already made and there's no going back, I'd ask her to mention to her roommate that she's not comfortable changing in front of each other, which should prevent any awkwardness created by sexually stimulating situations.
Just tell your friend to keep busy- the only time she really needs to be at her place is when she needs to eat, sleep, or take a shower. And maybe, if they bond, your friend will eventually be able to come out to her.Much needed advice for friend PLZ help will pick best answer?
She should first be honnest with that girl about her attraction or simply move on from her crush, and respect her the same way she would expect to be respected. Don't do onto others what you wouldn't want them to do onto you. That's a great existentialist philosophy to observe.
If she is moving in with her that is fine, but I think before any final plans are made, she should tell that girl straightforward what her feelings are, just so she has a heads up whats going on..then it goes from there.
Tell her that she should just leave the girl alone and not come between her and her boyfriend; it's not right to cheat. Good things always come to those who are patient. Good luck
She is being deceptive with the friend she is moving in with.
She sounds like a predator.
maybe she should bring it up to the girl as a joke just to see what she says.. but if there's no chance in hell I'd suggest trying her best to move on
Good Luck! Maybe it can work out for the Boyfriend.... LOL!
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