As i need someone to give me advice, i need someone who has come out gay or someone who has a m8 or family member who hasWhat is it like comingout gay, Cause my best m8 just has and i need some advice?
My mate came out to people at school in Y11. People already suspected but he still got alot of sh** from the closeminded insecure idiots. It's a difficult thing to do and he still hasn't told his mom. Just be the same as normal around your mate and help him to ignore the ';hilarious'; and very unoriginal jokes. He'll probably be glad that your a real mate xxWhat is it like comingout gay, Cause my best m8 just has and i need some advice?
what do u need advice for, just because he's finally come out, doesnt mean he's a different person, i have gay mates, and i still rip on them as much as before i knew, if he's just come out, you stayin the same will help him alot,, does that help?
Be there for your mate... Don't treat him any differently... He is the same person...
He'll probably pull women better than you ever could... ;)
There is nothing wrong with it, everybody these days is okay about it and it seems to be in fashion. The worst bit is telling everyone but im telling you now you soon find out your real friends are and they are definately worth keeping like yourself who stick by you. Family are the worst but then it makes u a stronger person for being honest with yourself.
Scarey and verymuch dependant on the reactions of friends and family...
Make it good, show you still friends and if a girl go out guy spotting with him.
If a guy let him no its cool just no sneaky peaks 9and say that in a fun jokey way). He will be worried you don't want to be his mate.
Also note... gays get lots of girl mates.
2 girls can really try to convert gays
3 girls dont mind changing clothes in front of guys they are convinced are gay...
Ie start plotting ways he can help you pull women so can be lads that way.
And if in the UK tell him to check out a nightclub called Starkers night if in London and over 18.
Nudist club mainly full of gays...
Just imagine it it was full of women.