Advice in love with. Hope for the best?

Having made a terrible mistake in breaking-up with my filipina love of 5 yrs, I tried to reconnect with her months later. She says she isn't angry, sad anymore, but she will not speak with me, only text. We are in different countries %26amp; she has a met someone recently. It's most important that she is happy, but how to resolve the feeling that I see my mistakes and am trying to be a better guy. Am I crazy to try to light the flame again?Advice in love with. Hope for the best?
Think long and truthfully about this before you decide. If your intentions are not pure stay away from her, think of her best interest. Playing games with peoples emotions is a slight form of murder in a sense that each time hurt is involved it must be overcome. In order to overcome something has to be let go, 'feelings'. Each time we heal ourselves after a broken heart we thicken our hide. Our standards will raise and we will put up with less and less. So if you are not prepared to give it your all, stay away, and if you are prepared to give it your all be prepared to know you only have 50/50 chance. Is she worth that risk? She must have thought you were to try for four years before walking away. The best thing you might do is to write a heartfelt letter about what she means to you but be honest, no wishy washy romance at this time. Only hard core truth. Ask her to consider another chance but if she is interested in another guy, she may well be over you and you will have to accept the loss.


Love is a dangerous game when it is not appreciated from the start.


Best of luck.Advice in love with. Hope for the best?
You are very welcome. Solid communication enduring to resolution is the key to a healthy result. Even if we are unable to have that which we desired, it is always in the best interest of all involved to at the very least have peace of mind, holding no grudges for forgiveness is a state of mind.

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You really hit the mark. More than anything I wish to see the 2 of us to be a peace with eachother. I'm still trying to forgive myself for the pain I caused her, %26amp; looking for her to forgive me. I have to accept that I have no control over the later beyond being happy for her. Lots t4 me to learn.

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I foolishly broke up with someone that I was madly in love with too, and once I realised my mistake, it was too late, and he'd fallen out of love with me. You just have to accept that you made a mistake and try to get on with life. Live by the philosophy that if it was meant to happen, it would have happened, and maybe it still will happen. Don't force it.
Yeah. That's generally a bad idea. The best way to get a woman to wonder (or think about you) is to not have any contact with her - AFTER a break up.





Zero contact. No phone calls. No text. No attention . NADA.





I know it's hard, but if you want her to MAYBE come back or think about you... that's the ONLY way to do it.





You need to ---%26gt;%26gt; ';give her the gift of missing you';.





She may or she may not be thinking about you..... but if you were good to her - I guarantee you she WILL. Women tend to compare ';the next guy'; to the last guy. Especially a boyfriend of 5 years. That's SIGNIFICANT.





This works in a guy's favor... because you can now carry on with your life and date whoever you want.





The only reason she is allowing you to text her (don't!) is because women like to collect male attention . . . . . and they like to be in a position to DISQUALIFY it too.





Never give a girl this opportunity.... and it will instantly make you ';not like every other guy';.
Just let it go, its in the past. She has moved on and so should you. This time, try to remember your mistakes and dont make them twice. If you still have feelings for her and you are still texting her, its going to be harder for you to get over here and move on. Just leave it in the past.
no your not crazy to want to relight the flame we all make mistakes in life if you come back and show them you know you messed up and your willing to do what ever it takes to get her back... sometimes we don't realize how much we value something or someone till its gone..
I had a filipinia love once. It was a taco from taco bell. After I was done making love to it, I left it on the counter. My mom walked in and noticed the taco and thought that it was sour cream in it, she took a big bite, and then I told her it was my seamen.
Tell her exactly what you just said here! Tell her it pains you that you made such a mistake, and you would change it if you could. And you ask for her forgiveness, and ask if you two could at least be friends.
Yea dude, look, if you let her go once there was a reason, love is soo ****** up, and once u open up the door, you can't lock it, and they can leave at any time
Just keep texting--ur on the right track to building the relationship back. However, if she's met someone and is happy, try just staying friends and don't be overbearing. Wait it out...





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Yeah brother, this isn't going to work out.
you should try and meet some new people too like she has
no, just stupid for putting it out. but im not being nice, but i dont care
wat wat u say sonny boy speak up

Wat do i do i need advice from girls b.c they always know best(well most of the time)?

i know that its not good for me to do this but i like my bfs best friend and i don't know how to not like him and i don't want to hurt him i want to be wit him forever but i don't know wat to do....like his friends are always around so yeahWat do i do i need advice from girls b.c they always know best(well most of the time)?
your boyfriends bestfriend?well then why do you have a boyfriend.if you like him you should go for him.but you dont want to hurt your boyfriend.you could tell your boyfriend that you like him instead.and then break up with him.or go out with his bestfriend and break up with your boyfriend and not tell him.hope this helps and if it isnt a bother would you answer mine.


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I need advice (10 points the best answer)?

ok so today at school (8th grade) there's this mean stupid guy (his name is christian) who was being really mean and he was saying that i have no chance with the guy i like and just really being mean and he insults me alot


so my question is what should i do?


(i pushed him last week because he really made me mad [ha ha])


**** I DON'T LIKE HIM*****I need advice (10 points the best answer)?
Been there done that, he needs to get a life, tell your mom and then tell the principal, I got my principal involved once and she scared the living daylights out of him, lol. If you ever need to talk just go to my profile and email, well, if you don't want to be a tattletail it will just continue, maybe try what the other people said to see if that works and one more tip don't tell people who you like if thats the case and he's probably saying that because he's probably jealous because he likes you, you're probably a beautiful young lady.I need advice (10 points the best answer)?
Ignore him. It is obvious his opinion shouldn't count, and definitely shouldn't make you so upset. He continues to say mean things to you, because you give him the time of your day. He is not worth a minute of your time, and whether he thinks there's a chance for you and this boy to get together shouldn't matter.


Walk away, pretend he is thin air, and nothing else. If anything, that'll make him upset.
Awww 8th grade guys are sooooo dumb! ima Freshman so i went through that last year. THe best thing to do is just ignore them. It doesn't do anything to stop them and it probably makes it worse. Just hang in there untill you get to highschool and the guys are much more mature and HOTTT. anyways haha yeah just ignore him and it will all be ok!


good luck!!
I think that you do that good, and I think he also feel ashamed, but the strange why he was doing so with him you seem to have feelings to you but he prestige because he is a shame you. it seems you must troublesome him and make him wary that will do cured
honestly the best thing that i can tell you is leave him alone. Guys who usually do that are jealous. Trust me i've been there before, %26amp; he's just saying that her doesn't like you because maybe he wants you for him self.





( by the way, do u go to St.Clare?)
i know u don't like to be a tattle tale but the best thing to do is just to tell a adult they can really help u if he is being a issue in your life
eh him he's so annoying gag me with a spoon!!


you should tell him ';sorry must be 5ft to talk to me!';


and ignore him at least that other kid is not there!!


Bye!!! ~See Ya~
I think u like him or u would stay away from him!
stay away from him then

The best way to hit on and pick up a girl - looking for girls advice only - thanks?

what is it that you girls like to hear, or need to hear, to get a guy to notice you. I'm not tryin to make myself sound like tom brad pitt, but i am attractive and am quite a funny guy, yet women usually seem to blow me off. is that a sign that i should try harder or keep lookin? ladies?The best way to hit on and pick up a girl - looking for girls advice only - thanks?
Maybe you are just coming off as a ';friend';? Try being straight forward and ask out a girl you're interested in !! All girls are different, but most of us just appreciate honesty and a guy being who they are. If they're interested then you don't ever have to worry about keeping up a false pretense of being someone you're not. Eventually the right person just comes along. Sounds clich茅 but it's true!!





Oh, and there is nothing worse in this world than bad pick up lines, and lines that are so clearly pumped with bull. :) lol Good LUck!! ;)The best way to hit on and pick up a girl - looking for girls advice only - thanks?
Be yourself. Don't use any cheesy pick up lines because those for sure don't work. If you're in a social setting where you are likely to be around women, then just introduce yourself and strike up a conversation. You say you're a funny guy, make a little joke, but don't let it be a joke where you want them to guess the answer because that is annoying.





Don't ask stupid questions.This guy was hitting on me once and I asked him where he was from and how old he was, just general stuff, and he asked, ';Where do you think I'm from?' and ';How old do I look?'; trying to be seductive and I was like give me a break. That conversation didn't last too long.





Don't try to look for girls at the club. Most people there are just looking to get drunk and/or get laid and not really for a relationship.





Trying harder may just mean changing your approach. Don't make it more serious than it has to be. You're just trying to get to know a woman, not put a ring on her finger, lol!


You seem like a good guy who really is trying, good luck!!
You are going about this in the wrong way. Number one, you asked for only girls to answer. Asking for a girl's advice on how to pick up women is the wrong angle to approach this from.





The number one way to pick up women is to not try to. You need to appear confident and act like you really could care less if they are around or not. I'm not sure how old you are but surely you have noticed that the girls around you seem to be attracted to guys that seem like jerks to you. This is for a reason.





Even if girls don't say so they are instinctively attracted to guys with confidence, even if that confidence comes off as slightly rude. Girls will tell you they want a sweet guy that shares his feelings and showers them with compliments. But it sounds like you have been doing this and it isn't working.





According to you you've got the looks, so to answer your question you should not try harder and don't just keep lookin' either. Be confident and let it show, the rest will fall into place. Good luck.
Try not to be insulting wit ur jokes and be gentleman like wit them and be u just don't be mean and rude.

Desperately need advice...???(girls would know best)?

ok long story very short i met this girl and i was talking to her and we had some problems in communication. We both agreed we would basically start over but i went to a camp for 5 days immediately following tht agreement. I was talking to her today and wen i asked wen were were gonna hang out she said she was going away for the summer. I honestly felt she liked me cuz of the things she said.





What should I do?Desperately need advice...???(girls would know best)?
Why don't you just agree to see her after she gets back from going away for the summer. She may just be a little shy and girls like a guy that makes an effort, so talk to her and set a date to see her. Good luck xxDesperately need advice...???(girls would know best)?
Respect that she is going out of town, and ask her if she will have time for you when she comes back. That is all you can do.
talk to her about it and ask her and tell her how you feel. :)

Advice on being the best......?

at a ';b.j.'; or sex. I want my man to be soooooo extremely happy. I need good advice.Advice on being the best......?
where can i find a woman like you?Advice on being the best......?
while your giving the b.j. talk to him, ask him what he likes/wants, eye contact...just do it, use your tongue alot on his underside and circle the tip alot, he'll love it

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I'm going out with a soldier and i need some advice on what to do for the best?

I have been with my boyfriend about 6 weeks - He is stationed in Wilshire so at the moment i can speak to him and see him quite often. The trouble is he is being sent to Afganistan in a few months which he wasn't anticipating! My question is do i stay with him, put my life on hold and hope that he comes home in 9 months or do we finnish things and move on? Either way i will be worrying about him and be praying he is safe and want to keep in contact with him. I just can't imagine being with anyone else when i know where he is and what he is doing?





Anyone been in a similar position who could advise me? Or if you just have a point of view it would rellay help! I'm so confused!!I'm going out with a soldier and i need some advice on what to do for the best?
I used to be a soldier and was funnily enough based in Wiltshire, I you really like him you should support him through what will be a very tuff time. However if you feel you wont last then quit now...the last thing he will need to be worried about whilst on tour is his relationship.I'm going out with a soldier and i need some advice on what to do for the best?
A soldier?? Are you insane????





Do you know what they get up to at night?
My advice is, never put too much hope on something in this world, include a relationship? But, there something else, believe in what your heart said. Do everything with your pure heart, and everything will just fine.
Either disengage now or stay the course. Once he goes, he can't worry about you. You have to be there for him when he goes. If you can't do it, do him a favor and disengage now!
I would want you to stay with him, if you love and care about him then you should stay with him. Stay stong and know that he will be thinking about you often and missing you like crazy. Don't end it because of this. If there is a future together with him, then stay with him and keep him in your heart and soul.
Why would you want to put yourself through such painful experience...? It's like you will be up all night wondering if you will ever see him again.





Also, if you do fall in love with him and one day decided to get married, the thought of him dying in war would be double if not triple. The fcuked up part about being a soldier is that you are on call for active service ';FOR LIFE';.





He can be in his 40's with a great job and loving family and one day lose it all and you will have to start all over ';with baggage's';.





Again, why would anybody put them-self through such pain for no good reason. 6 weeks is not enough for you to hang on to such relationship.
You pretty made up your mind to hang on. He will surely need you psychologically. He is human besides being a soldier. Make use of the internet, phone, mails, him stuff, exchange photos. In the mean time, take some study or something to occupy you in a healthy way.





Best of luck.
it's not a decission to love or not,


If you love him, support him and wait for him until he comes back


fill your life until then with wishes and dreams and you will make all those dreams and wishes true when he comes back
i would personallly talk to ur boyfriend about this and come to a decision together thankfully ive never been in this situation but u need to talk this through with him
Try to keep him at home some men will do anything for a woman that they really like, try and convince him that you are against the wars in Afganistan and Iraq by having a big emotional outburst and make a point of saying you don't wan't him to die for the sake of a government who only started this war on terror just for their own selfish reasons and he may see sense and leave the army.
The best advise keeping his picture everytime you lonely and crying.
maybe youre better finishing it. There is a chance he wont come back alive only in a body bag.
dont mention the war