Dating best friends ex, need advice!?

Okay so I have a complicated situation. So my best friend and her fiance broke up almost 2 months ago. She has since then moved on has a boyfriend and sleeping with him etc. The problem being is that she is pregnant but I guess apparently isnt planning on keeping the baby. She doesnt want nothing to do with it and doesnt think it would be right to have it with someone that shes not even with. What im wondering is him and I have mutual friends and since they broke up weve been hanging out and recently he asked me out. Now we are giving the whole relationship scene a go. but is it wrong to be dating him although my friend has since moved on and her and I have had a falling out and are no longer friends due to a totally un related topic? We both have mutual feelings for each other and have for a while now We just both happened to be in relationships. I personally want to persue this and when speaking with him he feels the same way. Any input or advice would be greatly appreciated, ThanksDating best friends ex, need advice!?
All I can say is that..thats a difficult decision that both of you are making - more you than anyone.





I don't agree that you would need her permission but you have to evaluate how close you two are and how much your friendship means to you.


Is it worth it (to lose your friendship with her?)


If so, you might want to inform her before she finds out from other ppl. (as a respect thing).





She would be the one to make the decision whether she can accept the idea or not..


But I do suggest that because she is planning on aboarding the baby, you do it after the fact.





And on that subject, I would suggest your new boyfriend (if he knows about the pregnancy) as well as yourself to be supportive in anyway you can. This will help with the transition.


This also insures you guys do not have anything hanging over your new relationship and you can start fresh.


Remember...People will talk no matter what.


Its all up to you how you handle the situation with your new boyfriend. If you want it to work then make it work.


My mother always said...


Down play the bad and Up play the Good.Dating best friends ex, need advice!?
not cool
Dear Chrisy,


Well, I'm not going to stoop to name calling, especially after your thoughtful and well written question.





Yes you do indeed have a very complicated situation.


OK I'm just wondering, why him? Of all the men, guys, males in the immediate vicinity of where you live, why him?





Only you know the answer to that.


I'm sorry you and your friend had a falling out. This probably won't make for an immediate reunion with her.





Are you planning on getting pregnant with him? He kinda left your ex-friend that way---something to think about. I of course know nothing of your situation but encourage you to know WHAT YOU WANT and stick by it. There are millions of men out there and the one you spend your time with should cherish you.





Good luck--be picky, you are worth it,


Jane
what kind of a scandalous ho are you... thats trash and your trash...you should NEVER ever go out with a friends ex its just not on. if u were my friend i would kick the s.h.i.t. out of u. where are your standards and morals? have u even heard of those words before?
I did it and we are happy together and that is all that matters for me. My ex friend got made and called me a trillion names but it just showed me how selfish she was not to let me be happy with someone that she did not want. Go for it and if she gets mad that is on her. You did not take him from her so she has no right to be mad at you if they are not together and if she is she really not that great of a friend.